ok so i MIGHT like this guy.. but about 509834 other girls like him as well.. and when i talk to guys i insult them constantly and talk about other girls and sports with them.. should i stay like that or turn more girly/flirty (like every other girl in my entire school.ha.)... ? like do guys NOt like that.. or do they like it when girls tease them?
2006-11-18 17:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by orange juice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
coming from a guys point of view, try not to insult him if he doesnt know your playing around. You should be yourself i dont like girls that change to try and make me like them (Only happened once) and if u do have to change who you are i dont think hes the right guy. as for those other girls if you suceed in getting with this guy watch out girls can be mean if there jealous (not trying to stereotype)
Good luck
2006-11-18 17:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Punkrockerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you for who you are, then you can do better. Never be someone that you are not, because in the end, your relationship, whether friendship or romance, will not work out.
Always base your relationships on the truth, not lies.
And be confident, you are obviously very young and you have your whole life ahead of you to be "romantically involved". Talk about sports, insult the boys and enjoy the best years of your life.
I hope this helps, and if you ever have anything you need to talk about, just e-mail me...
Good luck and be yourself!
2006-11-19 01:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Marisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Putting other people down (especially in front of your object of affection) only makes you appear bitter and shallow. You will stand out better by treating EVERYBODY with love and respect. Be the sweetest girl he knows.
SOME guys like to be teased, but if you do it, it's got to be clear that it's a TEASE and not serious. Most guys don't like to be teased though. You tease AFTER the relationship has been established. They don't want to be gushed over either, especially if they are popular.
Really, treat him with respect. Be nice to everybody. If he doesn't notice that you are genuinely nice, someone even better than he will notice eventually. Trust me on this. If you don't do it, one day you will think back on this advice and think to yourself, "dang, I should have gotten into the habit of being nice to everybody. THIS (new) guy said he likes this OTHER girl because she was so sweet and nice towards everybody." Won't you feel bad then, huh?
2006-11-19 01:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to go somewhere in the middle. Don't insult them just be fun, friendly and approachable. Its cool you talk sports with them cause not all girls are into that. I suggest that you get/make an oppotunity for this guy to see you at your most confident, at your best. You could also react or treat him in such a way that is different from other girls, if they flirt with him, then you just simply befriend him, if he gets treated too nice, tease him a bit. (not insult!)
2006-11-19 01:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and be casual. If you talk to him, find some common ground and tell him you would like to talk more, but not at school. Tell him you have to go to the mall or something and ask if he'd like to meet you there. If not, you don't have anything to be embarrassed about, but that would give you some one on one time with him and you could decide if you really liked him or not.
2006-11-19 01:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by DA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even count that high.
Umm anyways.. yeah, insulting isn't the -best- way to seduce them, I would say..
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But just be yourself, guys like flirting, they like the game. Flirt with them back..leave them guessing, and soon they won't be able to think about anything.. anyone else but you.
2006-11-19 01:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do and some do not.
If you are not yourself with him, what happens when you are?
Be yourself. You may lose this one, and it may be for the best. When you attract a guy as yourself, you more likely have a keeper.
2006-11-19 01:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be you and you only, if you act like someone else, how do you know if he will really like the real you? then you have to pretend the rest of your life just for someone to like you? You will find someone that will like you for you without putting on a show ,so just be you
2006-11-19 02:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by july 23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an amazing wardrobe, an amazing hair and make up, and overall, have an amazing amount of CONFIDENCE.
FLIRT with him. He'll catch on :)
2006-11-19 01:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be yourself. if that guy doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not worth your time. and also try to think about what to say before you say it.
2006-11-19 01:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by angl3hvn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋