The girl does not have the look I am normally attracted to -
but some women can be average looking- & if they make an
effort to dress with at least some sex appeal- it makes all the
difference between them being a 5-6 or being a 7+.
I mean I know that personality,etc still has to be there,
but if there is not that attraction with the way she is, but I
think she could have the potential, do I stick with it for a 2nd date ?
I know it sounds superficial but guys are very visual and
I hate to see other women who look pretty or hot and
then think what am I with,?
Is there any way to have the girl dress differently to
see if there is any attraction I can have ?
2006-11-18 17:23:08 · 22 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right in that the right clothes can make someone look much better and impressive. The way you dress isn't everything though.
I would go on a second date and don't worry what other hot chicks think. You probably won't see them again anyway.
You may try telling her you are taking her to a place and it is a semi-formal affair. She might then ask what to wear and you could casually say what you think would be appropriate, and also
mention what you may be wearing.
Other than that, I'd say you should try not to be shallow.
2006-11-18 17:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts there is your first clue to nicely end things before anyone gets hurt.
Your already thinking what if, another reason to stop this.
There is no point of being with someone if you believe you could do so much better.
There is nothing wrong with setting your standards high, besides you do not want to waste your time wondering what if?
Dont settle for the first thing unless shes the one...
Follow your gut .
2006-11-18 17:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by dazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i think you should just let this girl go because she is probably beyond the point of needing to dress up and realizes that conforming to societies silly ideals is worthless. If you tried to change that, i think you would only be making her a product of society instead of what she currently feels she should be. Or if you can just get over the silliness yourself and just figure out if you think the girl is amazing or not, then go ahead and work on shutting down that thing that society has implemented in your head telling you about what you "need" or something. Just don't try to get this girl to be this plastic thing please.
2006-11-18 17:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nate K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you could ask her to dress differently. The way she dresses is part of who she is and if she doesnt want to dress a certain way then she won't. I know guys are visual creatures, but sounds like you are being a bit shallow... how's her PERSONALITY? did you take that into consideration?
2006-11-18 17:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by shortee807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a good attitude, likes you, has a great personality and you get along,. you can teel her afdter 7 or 8 dates.she'd look great in a skirt, and you;d like to see her dress up.
If she doesn;t own any, go shoppoing with her and get a few good friends of her to come along. It is not a high cost, but it may make the difference.
2006-11-18 17:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who Cares! I don't think I've ever been on a first date where the girl wore a skirt! I bet she still looked great & you need to decide why you asked her out in the first place!
2006-11-18 18:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by funblueeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like you want her to change. If you are truly attracted to her. What she wears shouldn't matter. Personality is so over looked nowadays. Now really, do you want a women you can look at or one you can talk too? I guess the answer to that will determine your maturity huh?
2006-11-18 17:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by babiegurl_2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, dude, you are creeping me out here.
She was just trying to act casual and laid back, like she wasn't trying to impress you or anything. She was being herself.
I wouldn't wear anything formal at all on the first date.. maybe a wedding, but, that's a bit ways away..
2006-11-18 17:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her someplace with a more formal dress code, if you both can afford it. (Don't pay for her! Chivalry is dead!) You can't just tell her to wear a dress on your next date. You have to make her do it in this more subtle way.
2006-11-19 02:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg!!! I think you need to get a new hairdo and buff up a bit!! I like more bulge in the biceps!! and while you are at it - let me redo your wardrobe- it needs some help- you have been arrested by the fashion police!!! LOL! D
2006-11-18 17:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋