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is it ok to not like a person for being a mama's boy? i mean a huge mama's boy. he wil only see me like once very 2 months cuz of her is it his fault (we r 15)? if it is or isnt can i dislik f for it?his mom has tawt him she and my mom to intervene every time me & him have a problem with eachother, my mom goes along with it i hate it so much. most 15 yr. olds cant stand their parents. i cant stand mine more tham most, and he just luuuuuuuvs his mom. goes everywhere with her all weekend to the most stupid places like the beauty parlor and the supermarket. he also goes other places that are "family problems" and are a secret to me. but watever the probs r, y duz she need a teen w. her? i dont no how his dad died. i cant help but find very unatractiv, i mean not as just a opposite-gendr atraction thing, also just if i was to be just frends with him. his dad is gone, i dont no where but stil i mean he IS a mamas boy. is that an ok xcuse can i dislik him for it can i rej

Answer 1

My advice? Be his friend, but don't date him. You will be annoyed more often than not. There is a difference between treating your mother nicely and being a mama's boy. I was engaged to a guy from Atlanta, who was sweet as can be to his mama and myself. She loved me to death, and we had a great time together. Then she got divorced. After that, she was nuts. She had to have him all to herself, and I couldn't stand it anymore. She turned on me, and he wouldn't stand up to her for me, so I had to go.

Answer 2

I'm not sure why this is in the homeschooling section, but hey...

You can like a person while still having problems with certain things they do. You can think he's a great guy but decide that you just can't handle his inability to deal with his own problems and be tied to his mother.

Essentially, no, it's not okay to not like a person because of some label you've applied to him. You can like him without liking what he does. Regardless of the ethical/moral aspect, you feel what you feel. I'm assuming you are dating this guy? If you don't want to be with him, then why do you bother?

Answer 3

DID YOU EVER HEAR THE OLD SAYING---YOU CAN TELL HOW A MAN WILL TREAT YOU BY THE WAY HE TREATS HIS MOTHER???