Girls like guys with self esteem. Just as guys like girls with self esteem. Not making eye contact is another form of bad self esteem. Of course we like it when guys make eye contact with us, it just shows us that they are secure. That is if you are talking about a girl who doesn't have a problem making eye contact. Most people have a fear of eye contact because they are afraid of letting others "See" them. When you find your self not making eye contact, acknowledge that you are doing it by making eye contact. It's just another thing where "practice makes perfect."
Another thing you could do is get together with one of your close friends or family members and do an exercise called staring. Make sure you are standing with your hands at you side. do not figit or talk. Blinking is ok but just stare at the other person don't do anything else. What ever emotion you are feeling let it out. If you think it's funny then laugh but maintain eye contact. Try it out some time.
2006-11-18 16:58:22
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answered by purpleshopper 2
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I can say that a 'genuine' smile and eye cantact is important but you don't have to push yourself even though the jokes stinks lol. Well, my tip for you, is to just let yourelf lose. So what if you don't have the perfect smile of the perfect face??? What's important is the communication. Don't be shy! Besides, it's more fun to talk or joke around with someone whom you feel you can connect than talking to a beautiful face but an airhead. Well... I wish I have a friend like you 'cause you seem to be a very kind and sincere person.... but you're holding yourself back... try not to next time okay? ;) Physicals are not that important 'cause people will like you more because of what you are inside. And that's what matters most. Love life! Cheers!
2006-11-18 16:57:11
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answered by sheer♥black 5
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Yes smiling is important. I doubt anyone cares about the placement of your teeth as much as they would the color. Just show them pearly whites even if they aren't perfectly aligned.
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Besides what's better than a guy to seem to genuinley enjoy your jokes to smile and make eye contact.
Perhaps it's just my crap sense of humor but not a lot of people do that when I tell a famous crap joke.
2006-11-18 16:45:34
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answered by Jennay 2
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Eyes are the window to the soul. Women need to see them and your smile. Work hard and break that bad habit of looking away.
2006-11-18 17:34:58
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answered by Radio Diva 4
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girls love eye contact. its sweet and powerful. dont look away. always smile with a sincere smile, not a BIG smile. <3
2006-11-18 16:54:29
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answered by Mimi 2
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i think thats cute. it doesnt matter to me what a guy looks like. if he has confidence in hisself, then thats a huge plus. eye contact is great and so is a smile, but shy guys are fun.
2006-11-18 16:44:36
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answered by Perfectly Insane 5
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i try my best not to smile dont like smile either:( but i do make eye contact like what the hell, why not?
2006-11-18 16:41:14
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answered by sofarfromhome 1
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i understand. but whe its a moment like that it really shouldn't matter how you look. you made a connection that goes deeper that appearence. yes we like it.
2006-11-18 16:41:47
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answered by Danielle W 2
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eye contact is essential. this is when soul-energy is transferred. it's fabulous ... never stop....
2006-11-18 16:41:42
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answered by Anonymous
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