I am 21 weeks pregnant now, my b*f left me while i was 5 weeks pregnant cause i was getting so moody for his ex girlfriend who cheated on him numerous times. at first i thought it was just a fling and he'd come back. obviously it didn't work that way. I have been sick and he doesnt call me or try to talk to me or help out in any way possible, but he will be fighting for custody.
I think i am over him but then its nights like this when i realize im not, and i dont think i ever will be. Hes the father of my child, and my first love. I cant get him out of my mind. Every little thing reminds me of him and try to fight it, i just cant. Do you think ill ever be able to move on with me life? cause i dont
2006-11-18 16:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everything will work out. When I was 5 months pregnant with my first daughter my partner left me for someone he cheated on me with and I was devestated. Its a horrible time because your suppose to joyful over a baby but your b/f is no longer there. It does get easyer and you may not meet someone at first but someone better for you and your baby will come.
2 years after my daughter I had another little girl and a amazing boyfriend. Just try to look ahead.
Hormones also are not your friend right now so talking to your doctor might help since afer the baby you might get PPD which is a horrible depression. Letting them know will give someone to talk to which is always good
2006-11-18 16:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me you will move on!!!!!!! i know that right now you feel like you will never be over this but you will trust me. Its all about time! time heals all wounds, just think of yourself today, you are stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be stronger tomorrow then you were today. This guy is clearly an asshole, he is not worth your time and your tears. Someone better will come along, and best believe your boyfriend WILL come crawling back. Just as soon as you've moved on he will come back, and you wont have anything to do with him!!!! Your revenge will be becoming a strong beautiful independant woman who does not need him!
2006-11-19 00:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would for get get him .Stop living it over and over in your mind find some peace with in your own mind and think of great things .
If you ever think of going out for coffee or just a movie or need a a person to talk to --not that I am trying to set you up or anything but I do have a single brother .
But I defiantly would get out and do something and enjoy my time before baby arrives and be excited for baby's arrival.
My heart gos out to you .
2006-11-19 01:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will be fine if he wants to be a jackass then let him dont worry about him trying to get custody Stay true to your self and know that everything happens for a reason and that God has a plan for you!!!!
2006-11-19 00:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you can move on with your life, then you don't.
Does it really matter what we think?
Seriously, did your boyfriend expect this child before you were pregnant?
2006-11-19 00:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can move on but first you have to find someone else to move on with ...........
find that special connection that will make you happy and dont settle for anything less than you deserve
2006-11-19 00:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by mpl_leafs4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong !!! u can do it!!! and dont let the jerk have custody...he wasnt there for u when u needed him so why let him??? u have to deserve to be a father...
2006-11-19 00:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youl get over him, just takes time.
2006-11-19 00:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by StarWarsFanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋