I really want to be with this girl and she knows that. We were working toward a relationship but she just told me the other day that right now she doesn't want to be with anyone right now. How can i still show her i want to be with her without going over board. I don't want to annoy her but it's hard not to be around her and talk to her everyday
2006-11-18 16:35:07 · 13 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she meets the right person she will change her mind. As much as you may be attracted to her, the two of you may not be right for one another. That doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you or her, just not a good pairing.
Let her know that you're interested and leave it at that. Don't pester her or you will eliminate any chance that you may have had.
2006-11-18 16:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the better thing to do now is to give her some space to show that you respect her wish, while you can still hang around with her from time to time, or talk with her every time you two bump into each other. I think she needs some space, and if you can give her what she wants, she will come back to you. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-11-19 00:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by patience s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, she is not ever going to want you, it's called a let down, so go out with every other girl in town and make her want you, tell her that you will not wait for her to make up her mind about you.
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2006-11-19 00:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force someone to love you regardless of how you feel towards her. The best you can do right now is be her friend and see where that takes you.
2006-11-19 00:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by cherokee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off a little bit. Give her some space. Respect her decision. Just like the saying "if you got a hold of something, let it go; if it really meant for you, it will come back".
2006-11-19 00:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by gracenpraise w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a real friend. When she's ready for a relationship, she'll think "Who's a really great male friend that I've known for a while and has always been there ..."
It'll be YOU!
2006-11-19 00:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should write her a sweet, love letter expressing your feelings. If she still says no, then you should give her some room.
2006-11-19 00:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has made herself perfectly clear. You can't force yourself on her. If she doesn't want to be with you it is up to YOU to respect HER choice and to back off.
2006-11-19 00:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt like you. she doesnt want to be with you. get the clue and move on. women who say they dont want to be with anyone are really saying i dont want to be with you. forget about her, and fast.
2006-11-19 00:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by mike p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey she probably has someone else... she just told u that so she wouldn't hurt your feelings as much
2006-11-19 00:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by disiple in training 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋