Why does everyone (esp. some Christians) hate queers for their sexual desires of which they cannot control?

Question

The Bible says that we should speak of love and all those stuff but usually when homosexuality is brought up, Christians usually go "God hates you! Go to hell and be condemned for eternity!!!".
Is it so wrong to be what you are created to be (refering 2 homosexuals)?
In case some of you didn't know yet, Homosexuality is either genitic or due to you environment. I can't confirm which is true but it's definitely not of choice. So why are people always hating on Homosexuals?
And some people merely use their religion to show their hatred and "disgust" towards the queers.

To gratvol:
Yes, no one forced anyone to get into any relationships. But the desires are uncontrollable like straight people also have uncontrollable desires for the opposite sex.

Answer 1

oh by they do think it's a choice, not genetic. if it's genetic, then they will have nothing to pin on you, so they say it's a choice. hehehe...

Answer 2

First of all, pray about it. I think it's awesome that you want to stop and are making a move in that direction. Second, stay in the Word man. Reading constantly gives you strength even if you don't realize it. (something I even have a hard time doing)...... Memorize scripture. When temtations come, quote scripture ,like Jesus did, and that will also give you strength. 1 Corinthians 10:8 1 Corinthians 6:18 Ephesians 5:3 Romans 1:24 Acts 15:20 Colossians 3:5 Revelation 14:8 Revelation 2:20 Ezekiel 16:15 Ezekiel 23:27 Acts 15:29 1 Corinthians 12:21 And my favorite one.... 1 Timothy 4:12 - Let no one despise your youth; instead, you should be an example to the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in PURITY! There are many, MANY more but this will definitly help. God Bless!

Answer 3

Don't try to cram your self titled avatar "delusions" onto the rest of the world when the truth is most gays want the church people to be blamed for all the wrong in the world except those who prey on women and children in churches like the wolves in sheep's clothing they are. You desire the Christian to pat you on the back, approve your sins so you will feel justified.. God allows people to believe a delusion when they leave Him out of their knowledge and refuse His truth. Look up the word reprobate. Good news is that if you want out, through the blood of Christ you can be free from any sinful urges or vices and you know what? The real Christians will be there lovingly and prayerfully and in fasting to help you find true happiness which is not ever found from indulging in self-destructive lifestyles. Would you consider it love not to tell a child that if they touch a stove they will get burned and to say and do everything you could to discourage them? You lack the ability to properly discern boundaries, that which keeps bad out and good in. I'll be guessing you haven't set proper boundaries with your relationships or with God. God sets boundaries out of love for you and me, not hate and Christians happen to understand that and care enough to sound out the warning cry to not touch that sin (and leave it) because it will destroy your life and leave your soul lost and empty in the end.

Answer 4

Its not called hate it is called knowing right from wrong....It is wrong.....God opened the earth and done away with what you are saying is right......Were did the word Queer come from I do not label you all I am saying is it is wrong...You all label your self's....The Lord has warned us of false profits...And the evil of the world ..It reads Their will come a day when men will not know that they are men....What dose that mean to you...And also it reads women will lose their place in this world....Is this happening....People who believe this is Giving into what the world fights everyday...Temptations....Evil temptations and the sex Demon is one of the worst demons to fight...And your demon won....Just like money demons...Having you get in debt...You spend knowing you cant pay but you do it anyway...Ruins many of Families And Lifes.....I dont believe Christians...tell you they hate you...But to tell you to go away they can do that....God did not create you... to become You. You created Your self mentley and physically...That is were you are confusing people...Their is nothing genetic about it...And God tells me that in His words...If you came from the environment I came from you would be insane and Not able to cope...But I had Jesus..That is How I won....He dose not work by His self you Have to work at it to and you gave in....People have to fight their temptations Daily .....You give into yours...Satan knows your weaknesses Just like God dose....And Satan temps you Not God.....They hate own you because it is wrong....A man A real man that has no desire for another man that is the most disgusting thing to A real man...They dont want to have to face that ....True believers in Gods word..Will always Fight this because it is against God and human and we no that and this is why we will never give into it...We are told that we are to turn from wrong..And if you can ever learn self control you will win...queer means Diffrent..Homesexuals in Religion is DISGUSTING......God bless the U.S.A. and Israel And ALL....

Answer 5

I think you're a liar, my friend. I've been a Christian for as long as I can remember, and I have NEVER heard one single Christian say anything REMOTELY like what you claim is our "usual" position regarding homosexuality.
By the way, homosexual desires may not be a matter of choice, but homosexual activity certainly is.

Answer 6

your absolutely right. Someone right now is forcing me to write this answer just like a person is forced to have homosexual relations.

again your right I have an uncontrolable desire. So that justifies me going out and raping the next woman right?

be serious. As people we have something called self controll.

Answer 7

Ok first I have to say this, my brother in law,his boyfriend and alot of their friends are gay and all them say its a CHOICE not genetics, there is no gay gene. Im a christian and I dont hate them, I believe homosexuality is wrong but I know the bible also says not to judge so I dont, its not my place. So I guess I agree with you on that respect. Oh yeah alot of atheists hate gays too so single them out next time.

Answer 8

True Christians do not hate anyone. They may hate sin but they do not hate people. That would be contrary to the Word of God. No one was 'created' homosexual. I am sorry but that is the Word of God. No one said it would be easy to get deliverance from it but they were not 'born' that way. We all may have environmental circumstances to our sins but that is no excuse. God still expects us to try to live sin free lives. No it is no difference than fornication. In any event, God expects us to get deliverance from them both. May God Bless

Answer 9

No true Christian hates Homosexuals for being Homosexual, they hate the sin. God call it an abomination in His Word.

Lev 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination.

Answer 10

The second you put your birdy up anothers poop shoot is the second you turn queer! And that is a choice my frend.
So now that we know it is a choice. It is between the queer and God. Who am i to question some ones relationship with Jesus. We are saved by the grace of God. I am saved and still fall into sin, thats the difference i fall into it as oposed to diving into it. The more of Christ i take in the less of sin that comes out.

Answer 11

Nature itself says it is a choice that some one makes. All animals know that they need the opposite sex to survive. It we were created to be with the same sex we would all die with no of spring. God created us to leave our fathers and mother to cleave to our wives. No one should hate any one. All gays need prayer. It is not a healthy life style choice. I have talked to people who use to live that way and they said it is very destructive.