i have an online bro...whom i love very much..i dont have a real bro..so never knew whats the significance of having one...he is doing his iit and lives in a hostel with a room mate..his room mate is such a @%$#@%#@...downtrodennish person..that he was too jealous with our relationship...yesterday his rooma mate sent me many messages by saying that...he has 4 gfs and has already left one...and that he had said a lie to me that he doesnt have any...initially i dint believe to his crap messages..but then he started saying that...my bro wanna make me his girl friend and that he is no longer ineterested to keep this bro-sis relationship...i had become very very hurt...and thought of proving his room mate wrong...but i dint have gutts to ask my bro directly...however that night...i sent him a message by asking him whether he likes me in that sense...since then he is so much hurt that he is crying and weeping..and has gone really down...thats all my fault, i agree..i have done a sin
2006-11-18 16:29:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pretty big mess!!!!,
But there is nothing talking can help.............
Just call him, talk to Him, It'll solve a lot Of problems..............
Best of luck :-)
2006-11-19 02:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nithin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to provide a true feeling and true love of a brother and sister relationship in any other relationship of a boy and a gal and in your case this is internet contact so you should consider this factor before you analyse anything else...
You have not talked about your true feelings.. do you have ONLY a feeling and love of a brother for him? or you have not recognized your own feeling as of yet..?
This is quite possible that he is in your love but as you have named your relationship as bro-sis he must be feeling guilty from within and must be suppressing his love for you..
He was crying because he never wanted to expressed himself in that way to you and his friend has done that..
If you have true brotherly love for him and if you feel that he has something more than that then you should leave him along and grant him an opportunity to forget you gradually.. or else you should accept his love and enjoy your life...
2006-11-19 02:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These kind of things happen all the time . There is no need to get so emotional. Give the relationship time and space. the answers u r seeking will come to u without ur seeking them. bro-sis relationship or for that matter any relationship is is matter of trust.dont betray nad dont be betrayed
2006-11-19 01:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by venkatesh k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i understand coz i too hav an online bro as i dont hav a real bro . i think u should hav belived in ur bro and not of tht silly hater. u should'nt leave ur bro-sis relationship and try to make him up . coz people hardly find a tru bro .u should tell him all the stuff tht hater had told u so tht ur bro can talk to him . i wish u good luck .
2006-11-19 02:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by ayesha_style13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call up your brother and say him all the crap thing that his friend played with you and tell him that you asked him all such things because you too were hurted on knowing all bloody stuff from his friend. if he loves you like real sister then he will forgive you as brother always love and forgives and protects his sis. so if he loves you then he will forgives you and then will always protect you from his stupid friends. all the best. just call him up.
2006-11-19 02:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! i am v.j pls grow up! you have nt done anything wrong in expressing your feelings . You seem like an smart girl ,i am sure you will find someone who can respect your feeling, than those heartless guys who dont care for you. LOVE of any kind cannot be a sin. take care . vaibhavvjain@gmail.com
2006-11-20 03:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey do noy worry n tell ur bro the truth about his roomate if he is really close to u n is a true brother he wud understand pls do not worry
2006-11-19 00:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD! r u absolutely lil?
i think not only is the frienf playing bout with u ,..but the bro is also!
u said it was only online? isnt it?
haa! u r being fooled....trust me....tht's how ot looks
2006-11-19 00:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by catty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU SHOULD NOT LISTEN TO SOMEONE ELSE, IF YOU
NEED TO KNOW WHAT GOING ON THEN ASK THE PERSON
YOUR SELF. THE ROOMMATE BE JEALOUS OF THE
FRIENDSHIP THAT YOU HAVE. SO INSTEAD OF LISTEN
TO HIM FIND OUT FOR YOUR SELF HOW HE FEEL.
2006-11-19 00:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u tell him the truth......................did you tell him how his friend had forced you to believe that he was in love with you............well if he is ur brother then he would understand............................
another test for your relationship............gal.........
2006-11-19 03:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by screwurattitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋