I feel so alone and sad and no one loves me and I've tried to be confident and happy and it just doesn't work

Question

I dont understand why I can't just be happy and find someone who loves me.
I'm a good person, I really am. I'm smart and nice and I've tried my absolute hardest to be positive and to be happy and confident and meet new people. But somehow it just never works out for me.

Whenever I meet a girl who I think is right for me, it never works out for me. I'm 23 years old, never had a girlfriend, never been loved. I feel so alone and misunderstood and it's hard to go on. I don't want to give up and I feel that I really do have a lot to live for and I'm an intelligent person and I know I can do something interesting and positive for the world, but I just don't know how I can do it if I have to do it alone. I don't want to be alone.

Just when I think I've finally met a girl who understands me and who I can really relate to, she goes and turns on me and goes for another guy,and I really thought she was the one, and I thought she finally understood me, and now I'm just so utterly depressed :(

Answer 1

Don't give up on what you're doing. Meeting new people means you're increasing your chances of meeting that one girl who will love you like you've been waiting for.
You just need to be patient.

Answer 2

Evidently you need to look in different places. You want to do something for the world, make a contribution to society?

Join a church and participate in the young adult groups. Volunteer at the Red Cross, participate in community activities, be a Big Brother.

Partner, it's all a matter of where you look. You can do something positive for others,and help yourself too. It's good for the ego, and it's good for the world.
Good luck.

Answer 3

You are so young. Know that to be in a bad relationship is so much worse than not being in a relationship at all. I know that's not much consolation when all you want is to have a girlfriend. Don't let it get you down. Get your life in order, build your career, save money, maybe buy a house so that when she does come along, you'll be ready. Good guys really don't finish last.

Answer 4

OK here is an idea hope it helps...Try finding someone on a singles website or hey my friend introduced me to my BF and love of my life on the Inter nett! Its awesome my uncle just got married to a woman he met on the web and there about to have a baby :)

Answer 5

You're too young. In 10 years you'll be ready for marriage. Keep on keeping on. And if you're feeling alone, go volunteer. People need you.

Answer 6

you sound like a very sweet man don't worry everything happens for a reason!!!! and the right girl will be there when you lest expect it!!! God knows your heart and will send the right one to you keep your head up and stay strong know that there is someone out there for you!!!! God luck

Answer 7

God loves you man dont forget that. it might be hard to understand now but if you give your life to him he will be that " girlfriend" or whatever your looking for. he really does fill you up. God bless ;)

Answer 8

You need to feel good about yourself first!! When you feel good about yourself, it shows, stop trying so hard to find somebody, it will come.

Answer 9

... just be yourself and don't push things to go on your way. Love will find a way, enjoy your life, don't waste it for searching for love... because love is within you ;-)

Answer 10

i like the first question....thats me...emo cuz of your problem....and im 11....things might turn out good for me later though....