if a girl is 16 and if a guy is 19 and they are in long distance relationship do you think it will last long?

Answer 1

No way. Besides, in most places, that is counted as statutory rape, and is illegal.

Answer 2

I am going to be blunt. Let her go. Long distance relationships just don't work. Now, what may happen here eventually, is that the love will re-surface at a time when you both are closer and everything is more reasonable. Right now, however, it will be challenging for this to work out. For one, she will grow and have life experiences without you. And you as well without her. You will long for her and it will be maddening. Others will come along and you will wish you could be with them because they are closer and you could see them more, but you are attached to the other one four hours away. Another issue is potential jeolosy. When you are away from someone, you will wonder where they are, what they are doing, and who they are with. Honestly, there are a lot more issues with this if you think about it. I have been there and done that. It sucks. I have been truly in love with someone who was miles away and I would look forward to seeing her and then things wouldn't work out and we wouldn't see each other. I would be sooooo disappointed. You are better off turning the page and seeking someone else who makes you happy, warms you, and who is close so you can see her regularly. Down the road you will look back and understand and appreciate your decision. It's a hard choice to make when you care for someone. But, if love is meant to be, then as time goes on, maybe you both will cross paths and the magic will re-spark and she will be closer than ever. Just don't plan on that... let it happen if it is going to happen. good luck and remember...this is JMO. peace.

Answer 3

It all depends on circumstances. At age 16, I would say no. I am 19 and am in a long distance relationship. We have been together for over 8 months. So yes, a long distance relationship can work, and last.

But the key word is... work.

It is not easy. Both persons must truly want to be together, And both must be faithful. If even just one of you cant handle the intangability of the relaionship, then it is doomed. But if both of you are willing and wanting it to work, then it certainly can.

Long distance relationships are not for everyone. But honestly, you shouldnt have to ask. If it is to work, then it will... or it wont. It doesnt matter what the rest of us say.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

It could work but the probabilty is low as a 19 year old male may not have the maturity to wait and look for some quick sex somewhere and a 16 year old girl needs friends around her so the situation becomes to difficult in my opinion.Not impossible but very difficult.

Answer 5

there is no way to determine if any relationship will last,,so don't think of it that way,,,do you feel good about the situation,,if so then go with it and enjoy whatever time you have with this person,,,my son is in a similar situation ,,,he met someone on the internet last year,,he was 19 and she was 16,,,he just moved 2,000 miles in order to be with his girl in august,,,he has met her family and everything is going fine,,, follow your heart and let no one interfer

Answer 6

no...at 19 a guy cant stay faithful even if his girlfriend lives down the street. There are a million men in this world, you can find a new one. Dont waste any more time with this guy

Answer 7

Eventually they burn out, unless your idea of long distance is 10 miles!

Answer 8

Well, statistically speaking, no it wont. However there are always exceptions. Plus it all depends on so many different circumstances. If you both want it, then you should try. You never know who your soul mate is.

Answer 9

to be truthful, i think long distance relationships never work.

Answer 10

it won't last very long ... long distance relationships hardly ever work out.