wat do u do when you feel as if your not wanted?

Answer 1

i work on my landcruiser. and then i bully those those people in thier peices of crap around on the road...kinda intimidating when they look in thier rear view and see my bumper next to thier roof. nothing says "be my friend" like a little intimidation. or start stalking them...they are in YOUR thoughts, you are in THIER bushes, it all evens out. seriously though....i would find out if it is a misunderstanding or if you really are not wanted...if its the second, you dont need friends like that and would be better off hanging out with other people.

Answer 2

You sit quietly and tell yourself "these are NOT rational thoughts". There is no such thing as not being wanted.

If you feel as though you're parents don't want you, I am sorry. But parents sometimes do a terrible job at reassuring their children. Mostly because they are so caught up in their own issues and problems and they've never learned proper tools on how to resolve those problems so they begin to feel bad about themselves and take it out on their children. Understand (If this is the case) that it's THEM not YOU.

If it's something else,,,,again, these aren't rational thoughts. There is no such thing as not being wanted. It's just your mind feeling bad about yourself and you need to give yourself courage, strength, self confidence, love, compassion, understanding, patience, excercise and a good book that helps you overcome self esteem issues.

The more information you give yourself on this subject of self esteem, the more you will realize that there is no such thing as not being wanted. :)

Lastly, if it's relationship related... often times, you may have feelings different than the other person. This does NOT make you unwantable... it simply means that you feel different than another person. If this is the case,,, THAT person is not doing a good job at communicating that to you such as "hey, i like you but I want to be alone" or whatever. Instead, they play head games that cause you to feel insecure. Don't get insecure. This is anything that you lack... it's just the beauty of being young,,, people change their minds often until they eventually mature.

Answer 3

Oh dear, I know what you feel like, I overheard my mother, when I was in 5th grade in primary school telling her mother and my aunt that she wished she had never had the third child (that was me), and for many years my mother and I have never got on, in fact, we used to fight all the time, but now I am older, I dont really let it bother me. Yes, it did bother me lots when I was younger, and even only now I had had some councilling and it came up in conversation and I realized even now, it still hurts, because it upset me. My councillor told me to look at a blank chair and picture my mother sitting in it, and tell her how she hurt me by saying those things,and how she made me feel, but even now, I could not do it. I think you have to know yourself for who you are, we are all lovely, so you must think postively and strive forward, love yourself, cause it really doesnt matter what others think. If the person doesnt want you, it is their loss, move on, there are plenty of people out their that will appreciate you. Hold your head up, and smile, it will be hard, especially if you want whoever it is to want you, but life is too short to put up with narrow minded people,
Good Luch and Best Wishes

Answer 4

You allow God to be your best friend and you ask these kinds of questions to him. You then have Faith that he will hear your prayers and place people in your life that want and need you! Just know that you have an important place in this world or you wouldn't be here in the first place! God Bless.

Answer 5

Look good. Make an effort on my appearance- walk the walk and enjoy the attention. Then go back to being average looking.
Lol that made no sense.

Answer 6

leave but call every once in a while just to make sure hes still breathing and to also make sure yall not on bad terms or just stop calling as much and c do he give 2 Fu(ks abot you if he dosent then he doesnt ---ya dig

Answer 7

There are verious options
1. You cope up with it and lead a single life
2. you find a person whom you can care and automatically he/she would be yours
3. Like you, there are others also who are single and not wanted. You colud make a good pair.

Answer 8

Don't think about it, read or watch something funny. Laughter is a good cure for alot of things.

Answer 9

Seek out your friends and family. Your smart and beautiful.
Always look foreward to the future seek knowledge and balance.
You can do it.

Answer 10

I remember that I am worth talking to and if those in my life can't see it today, then I will see them tomorrow and find someone new who can see my value, just as I see theirs.