2006-11-18 15:55:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a nice part of marriage but far from the most important part, so, no it is not a 'must'. Here is an example of what I mean, if you and your spouse truly love each other and one of you develops an illness or has an injury that leaves him or her unable to have sex, should you leave? If there is real love, no, you shouldn't and people who say otherwise either have been in such a situation or put too much importance on sex. I'm in such a situation and I love my husband as much now as I did the day I married him, more so really. He is my best friend, my rock and I hope I'm those same things to him. THAT is what makes a good marriage. Marriage vows include for better or for worst, through sickness and in health. I wish more remembered that.
2006-11-18 16:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good sex life after marriage is important to maintain a good long relationship .You both must see to each others needs of course you can have headaches and say no now and again just dont stress about it explain this to your partner that you dont feel well tonight but as soon as you are well there will be no problem .It is best talked about rather than just a refusal then a man will be upset but by explaining this a caring man will understand .
2006-11-19 00:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is an absolute must in a marriage. Lack of it was one of the big reasons that broke up my marriage. Once that connection is gone a lot of the intimacy is gone and you might as well be living with a roommate.
2006-11-19 00:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not consummate the marriage with sex, you can have it annulled (which means that the marriage was totally invalid) instead of a divorce. So, yes, sex is a must, although some marry for other reasons (legal, support, friendship).
2006-11-18 23:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your age and circumstances. But if ya have no reason to not I would say yes. My mother always told me after 17 children one by one with the same man and married till death that if you service them at home they have no desire to roam. If the do you don't need them anyway and r better off alone. It also depends on what your partner wants. If they r not that interested in sex you will be fine. If they are you will have major probs!
2006-11-19 00:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by craftylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend and her husband didnt have sex after they were married. . . They felt like they should wait a while longer. .. . I think she said that they waited for like another couple of months til she felt comfortable enough, and he seemed totally cool with it. so i've heard of people doing this before, i just dont know if i could ever do that!
2006-11-18 23:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Barring some catastrophic physical inability that you are both aware of and agree to live with, yes, it's a must.
2006-11-18 23:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely Not a Must, you may love him very much, but you may not think of him as sex material.
2006-11-19 00:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by fudalisious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is the base of a happy marriage life
2006-11-19 00:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by pennyvjn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save urself for marriage sex is a special thing for u and ur true love
2006-11-19 00:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by MadisonG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋