they never find time for u or nothin,dont call,u have to be the one keeping the contact between u 2, he says hes always so busy with work n all, decides to spend his birthday in a different town with his family instead of u etc but dares to say he loves u and misses, thinks of u ....why does he do this?
2006-11-18 15:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are two possible reasons:
1. You pressured him into saying it before he was ready, and he just said it to avoid confrontation.
2. He wants sex without commitment or investing himself emotionally in the relationship.
If it's the first case, you two should talk. If it's the second, dump him. He's not worth your time, tears, or effort.
2006-11-18 15:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ella Minnow Pea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are usually too insecure about themselves to act like they are in love, as they feel that it is too silly or not "macho" enough. And so they act like real jerks. Also, most men take their significant other's for granted, and they think that you will always be there. So, they go looking for work, and money, and spending time elsewhere because they figure that there is time enough for "YOU" later, when there really is not.
2006-11-18 16:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dick and u sooo should dump him... and honestly if he doestn have the freakin desencey 2 keep in contact with u then u need 2 dump him and find a guy who is wirth it instead of a dick like him
2006-11-18 15:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. If he really loved you he would make time. Get someone that is worth it.
2006-11-18 15:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a dog and howls when it is full moon. Lucky you, he does not eat you alive.
2006-11-18 15:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't love you. They want a piece of A.s.s.
2006-11-18 15:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by soul_plus_heart_equals_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a pain in the ***?
2006-11-18 15:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by irishcharmer84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes dey dont mean it,they jus say i love u 2 say it and dont feel ne thing wen sayin it and sumtimes say it 2 get wat dey want
2006-11-18 15:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they cant help it,,they get confused easily
2006-11-18 15:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋