everyone alwyas says im realli sweet and pretty but yet no guy ever likes me..i asked a couple of my guy friends wat they think of me and they said i think ur cute and your realli sweet and i love your personality
im not a tomboy at all and i flirt most of the time so i realli dunt get y no one likes me
the other day i asked the guy i like wat he thought of me and he said i think your realli cute but were just friends for now..but i dunt think he likes me(besides he has a gf)
2006-11-18 15:53:38 · 19 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself which you have done already^_^
maybe the guys not ready for dating.. why not start being friends with them and go out.. you don't need a boyfriend to make yourself happy and feel good..loves comes when you are ready and that you willing to spend a few minute of the day to call them up and chat even in the hardest time of your life such as exams..stress he will show up.. it never love when he not ready and you pushing yourself to it..make him come to you..now go out with your girlfriends and have fun and one day a nice looking guy will walk into your life..
have fun my friend..while being happy about your personality..
I am cute as well and sweet..but never let a guy lead me down..i enjoy taking time and wonder what to do before I get a boyf..which at the moment I have one..and his not talking to me..which I am despressed =_=
2006-11-18 15:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question sounds like it is coming from a very young girl that is still locked into the "little girl" image. Probably a middle school student. Be patient, it will come. Why do YOU think the boys shun you? Young boys are usually shy.
Is there anything about you that would turn boys off? Are you TOO Chatty? do you talk ALL time? Boys have their likes and dislikes just like girls do.
Remember this: "Beauty is skin deep and ugly is to the bone".
Another: "Beauty is as Beauty does".
Be yourself, be nice and give the boys a chance to see the REAL you and lets hope that is not whats turning the boys off.
Relax and let it flow. Good luck. Pops .
2006-11-19 00:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got asked out a week and a half ago so I know where you are coming from. You need to be the one to make the first move. Most guys probably are to nervous to ask you out.
2006-11-18 23:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I bet you are really pretty, and what I'm guessing is that they don't think they have a chance with you. And about that boy you like try to look very pretty in front of him and try to be like him and talk about things you have in common.And if none of that works you have to ask a guy out on your own!!!
2006-11-19 00:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by fudalisious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a feeling I get but maybe (1) you're too young; (2) you're not very intelligent; (3) you're too needy; (4) you're fishing for compliments all the time; (5) you're self-centered; (6) you're conceited...I would go but I think that's enough damage at this popsicle stand.
2006-11-18 23:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of guys that like you and have a crush on you. You are just too busy looking at the "other" guys. One day you will make eye contact with one of those guys that has been admiring you and *BAM* there will be fireworks.
2006-11-18 23:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal preference...i don't like flirts because it makes me jealous. and if a girl was too set in the friends category, it would be hard to know that if i pushed it forward, whether my advances would be accepted. if you are in the friends category and want more, YOU are going to have to be the one to initialize...and hope that he feels the same way...otherwise, look for new relationships instead of increasing current ones from friends.
2006-11-18 23:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by FJ40spencer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do not guys not like you? Because you use double-negatives. Learn to spell & talk properly and you'll have all kinds of guys falling at your feet.
2006-11-18 23:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Smarty Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably too set in the friend zone.
2006-11-18 23:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them an offer they can`t refuse.
2006-11-18 23:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by hotchilipepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋