I've been together with my boyfriend for three months and was wondering, if in your opinion, it was too soon to say "I love you". I'm sure of my feelings but don't want to get the "thank-you" or just a blank stare. Should I wait until he says it to me or should I take the risk?
2006-11-18 15:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by Andyr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit on it another month. If you still feel that way, do it. Waiting for the guy to say it...you will be waiting forever with most guys.
Just say it.
2006-11-18 15:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel something for someone, you should tell that person. Whenever it feels right to you, that is the time to do it. What i mean by this is when the moment is right. If you get a thank you or something, immediately change the subject, and then wait until you think he is ready to hear this and say it back. But it is only too soon to say "i love you" when you feel uncomfortable saying it, or when you are not sure of your feelings. It is best to tell someone because you never know what may happen to that person tomorrow.
2006-11-18 23:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem with waiting for him to say it first to be sure you both feel the same way ... is that he may be thinking the exact same thing. So both of you may end up waiting for the other to say it first and the time will come and go and it will be left unsaid.
If you really feel like you do, in fact, love him .. tell him. It's much better to tell someone how you feel about them, then to hold it inside and have it be too late one day.
2006-11-18 23:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. 3 months. well you could wait or you could just tell him that you do. i mean with my boyfriend we were together for a couples weeks and he told me and i returned the feelings for him, cause i do love him. so telling someone you love him is tricky on a time thing. but i think you should tell him. if you get a blank stare then he's maybe in shock that you said it first and he may say it back to you. if it's a thank-you then well. im not sure what to say on that one, since most guys dont say that. just go for it... it won't hurt to say it. i hope he returns them for you.
2006-11-18 23:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months could be considered soon to alot of people, I think you should wait until you are sure that he loves you first before you tell him because if he doesn't love you when you tell him he might start backing away because he feels you are moving too fast.
2006-11-18 23:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to say it? Don't!
SAy " I really like you". or, "I love the way you brush my hair"
Don't take the risk, guys get flighty.
2006-11-18 23:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too soon, you might scare him away.
2006-11-18 23:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cruella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋