There's this guy that I've liked for the past 3 years, and we've been through a lot together. He recently told me that he liked me, too, and we've been hanging out a lot lately.
On his birthday yesterday we went to this vista point where you can see all the lights in the county. We were talking, and all of a sudden he leaned in and kissed me on the cheek. I turned my head towards him and we were really close and I thought we were going to kiss, but we didn't.
Also, the whole time I was panicking inside my head because I'm really bad at being in relationships and I'm a commitment phobe. Whenever we got close enough to kiss (and I mean like heads touching close), nothing would happen so after a minute I'd turn my head away.
What I don't get is that I KNOW I like him more than anyone else I've ever met, but for some reason I just can't kiss him. And I WANT to so badly.
How can I get over my fear and just kiss him? Because I want to so much but for some reason I'm just can't.
2006-11-18 15:40:08 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are nervous cause you really like him. I mean not like him as a very close friend. the way you are saying this you really want to kiss him but you are scared cause you don't know what will happen after wards. If you was to kiss you think that you two would look at each other different and you don't want that. Well, you should just see what happens. Obviously he wants to kiss you back so just do what your hear is telling you do. Not your mind. I mean your heart, do what it said do you will like it in the end.
2006-11-18 16:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it and think of the good outcome and dont worry about it. the hard part is figuring out if the person you like likes you enough to kiss you. he already kissed your cheek. you should just walk up to him and start making out. kissing is not a commitment. or when your about to leave be like "are you gonna give me a kiss?" it always works.
2006-11-18 15:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he goes to kiss you just neat him to the punch just a quick peck on the cheek to let him know that you arent afraid. this will give him a surprise at the same time keep him wondering whats next and keep him interested.
2006-11-18 15:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. kissing is ackward at first with someone new, but just go in for a gentle peck kind of kiss, and see how he responds. you have to get over the fact that its kinda weird, and just go for it. he will enjoy it, and he will be flattered you made the first move!
2006-11-18 15:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Val 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh girl this one is easy. It is because you like him so much!! He gives you the butterflies. He is probably the guy of your dreams physically.
2006-11-18 15:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're jus really afraid that you will do something wrong
and you dont want to loose him because he means so much to you
thats what i got from it
tell me if u need more help
2006-11-18 15:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him a LOT... that is what the thing is.. happens to most of us...
Just go for it...
2006-11-18 16:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋