but not so much anymore... I don't even look all that different now.. it's just- I look around and see girls so much younger and thinner... anyone else feeling this way?
2006-11-18 15:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
princess we all go through these feelings. You are probably just as pretty Just as attractive as ever you were. Unfortunately a lot of guys assume that women who are very attractive are taken especially since they are slightly older than the silly little girls they used to chase. You are simply more confident more assertive than you once were, that doesn't mean you are any less desirable than the younger more slender ( in my opinion less seductive ) females you are comparing yourself to. They are girls Hun You are a beautiful seductive woman, not a silly kid anymore. personally i like the fuller more rounded and curvy body of a woman as opposed to the awkward skinny angular body of a girl. I assure you, you are every bit as desirable as you ever were and in my opinion probably more so, to men that is not boys.
2006-11-18 15:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very few people are physically beautiful. Pretty is just playing up your good parts and downplaying your bad.
There will always be younger, thinner, prettier, smarter, richer people than you. However, you are a one of a kind, there is no one else like you. Learn who you are, not just what you look like. Your appearance is not your whole being......what people will find attractive about you is your....aura. That's not the proper word, but all I can come up with. I'd say soul but that sounds too religious for many people. How do you relate to others, do you care for others, are you merciful, are you upbeat, or do you belittle others, are you selfcentered.....etc.
When you quite being critical of your physical self, you can work on the other part. I'm not saying let yourself go......NO! Keep yourself in shape, dress appropriately for your body type, keep your hair in a complimentary style (not just what is fashionable), pay attention to your health and so forth.
2006-11-19 00:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that your priorities have changed. Perhaps looking lovely was more of a big deal to you then, but now you recognize that God has given many other women the gift of physical beauty, as well. I often feel the same way, but I have to remind myself that I am called to be alot more than a pretty face on this planet. What are your gifts and talents? Are you using them? Think what you could accomplish if you combined your inner and outer beauties.
2006-11-18 23:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by jamilu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't feel the way you are feeling. people grow with age (despite of gender) and through different stage of it you still can learn the art to be pretty/ handsome with the age you are in. it's by grace. the journey of ones life are reflected from their heart outwardly to be able to define them pretty/ handsome. personally as for me i've not feel much change with my body nor facial. i'm blessed no matter what cause if i'm turning 50/60 later, which i can't even tell for sure if i'm still alive or not i would not like to live like a 20 years old.
2006-11-18 23:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ..what you are having its TRUE-NIEVA...yeah..it happends to more than 30% of women all over the world..and if you dont see a doctor it could be permanent..You see it's starts like this at birth your mom and dad lie to you and tell you that youre pretty so you grow up thinking that you are..Well then you wake up one day look in the mirror and BAM!!! Realize that they've been lieing to you all this time..I'd defanently get this taken care of QUICK..!!
2006-11-18 23:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never thought i was pretty, i did once when i was younger and someone said i wasn't, i cant even remember who, but since then ive always thought i was ugly, and even though im underweight i still want to be thinner and prettier and so much better than me.
2006-11-18 23:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by tallica_child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm 32 and I feel that way and I don't look much different either.
2006-11-18 23:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree but i gained some weight so it's different now for me.
2006-11-18 23:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I sometimes fell that way, but you can't controll how old you are, and why be skinny when there's chocolate to be eaten? Don't worry about it, no one's perfect!!
2006-11-18 23:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Moll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and do not judge yourself by others, you cant become someone else, so be happy with who you are. If you are still the same, you are still pretty. be pretty, act pretty, be yourself.
2006-11-18 23:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋