What decision u will take for her if u will there in this condition?
U will leave her or ..........?
Give ur suggestion..
2006-11-18 15:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by mahesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think you should leave her. If you married this woman b/c you love her , and you both found out she cant have children; I think it is very selfish of you to leave for that reason. If she wanted to have children how do you think she feels that she will be unable to do so. There are other ways to have children in your life. You can always adopt, Depending on the reason why she cant have children you may have the option of using a surrogate, if either of you have siblings you could be that favorite aunt and uncle. You could be a mentor to some child who needs someone to look up to. I think it is mean, and mean spirited, as well as insensitive of you to want to leave her. I don't think she was hoping to not to be able to have children. She probably would not leave you if you were the one who was unable to produce children. I do believe the wedding vows say for better or worse. So if this is the "worse" then I don't think it is that bad. Do you really love her?
2006-11-18 15:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by quietgirla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would the first thing that comes to your head be to leave her. Did she lie about a preexisting condition? Was she at all decietful with you in any way shape or form? Love is Love! With or without a child being born between two people. There are so many other ways to have children. It's a crazy question pal.
2006-11-18 23:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your cultural back ground, but if you love her very much and she loves you very much, you pass/share this love with a child who with out the two of you would not have love. Adopt a child or children. I have two children of my own, that I gave birth to, but I have to say, if I ever decided to have more children, I would adopt. There are so many children that are born into a world they didn't ask to be born into, that are thrown away like garbage. Don't leave your wife, there are solutions to your problems. Best wishes to you and your wife.
2006-11-18 23:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You continue to love her...She is still a person of high value because you married her and that is a reflection of you as a person.
You chose her, you love her, you stand by her and prove what kind of man you are!
Look into adoption.
Some within your own family's may have a baby when they are teenagers and incapable of taking care of a baby. States look into placing children like this with family members first.
In the mean time, Love your wife and let her know you will stand by her forever.
2006-11-18 23:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u chose to get married it was for entirely different considerations. Children are natural consequences of union of man and woman. Suppose u divorce, how will u ensure that the other woman will give u a child or u will marry only one who has been tried and tested by someone else. How will u react if it is found that u do not enough sperm count to fertilise her?
2006-11-18 23:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To leave is not a good thing to do, I think that would make you shallow! You married her for a reason! You can go to the doctor and there are was around it. Most of the time when a doctor says you can't have kids, you can! Then what if you leave and she really can have kids, what would you do?
2006-11-18 23:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I you love her so much, than the aspect of her not having a child should not bother your relationship in any way. She would feel much worse about it than you do, so you should try to support her, maybe by adopting a child and letting her know that you still love her, and that you are willing to make any amount of sacrifice for her.
Hope the answer was helpful. Good Luck.
2006-11-18 23:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Nitha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you asked her for her hand did you honestly think about children? isn't it her you love not her ability to provide a family. You said you love her so love her. All I can say is if you leave her because of this you are shallow and cant really love her. there is always adoption. She gave you her life and body please give her some respect.
2006-11-18 23:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by Cff 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course I wouldn't leave her. I'd adopt a child. There are thousands of children in this world who need a loving home.
2006-11-18 23:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. if u love someone and they love u back and you both treat each other really good there is never a reaosn to leave! if u wnat a kid that bad and so does she u can adopt.
2006-11-18 23:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋