I like my guy friend a lot. He is all I can think about...honestly. I can't concentrate on anything else and my friends are sick of it. He really likes this other girl, but it is obvious to me and all of mine and hers mutual friends that I actually like him more than she does. He knows I like him, but we r still only really good friends. It's driving me crazy....if he has to like her instead of me cant she even call him instead of making him call her?!?! It hurts to see them together or to hear her name or to see her simply because I like him too much. What can I do? How can I end the pain?
One of my friends told him I like him and since then I've admitted my jealousy of the girl he likes. Our friends agree that I like him more than she does! Honestly? I don't think she deserves him. Just...help! And don't tell me to ask him out...he likes her, not me. Should I admit that I care for him A LOT and tell him exactly how much? Or what should I do? Thanx...
2006-11-18 15:03:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they rnt going out....they just like eachother, r together a lot at school (altho not as much as they used to be), and made out at this party 3 weeks ago.....but they have never gone out and they rnt so i dunno what the deal w/ that is.....
2006-11-18 16:14:46 · update #1
you should tell him .. honesty is the best.
keep in there. you might DIE to hear him with her, but just remember we dont control who we like. its just happens.
2006-11-18 15:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feelings need to be mutual for the bridge of relationship to be formed. It doesnt matter if one likes the other more than somebody else, its more important that its reciprocated.
Its a mistake to accept to the guy that you like him more, because guys tend to act superior when they know that they have got it easy with a gal.
Nothings lost, There are two ways from here
1. If you still feel he is worth it, Avoid exposing your jealousy, act normal, be friendly, try to mingle along & be your self, express your friendly nature & nothing more[no drooling over]. if he is worthy of you he might notice & before too long you might get along
2. When the feeling is not mutual, it means that you are knocking at the wrong door. think about the celebrities - there are 100's of fans who love them, bet they cant return the emotions to all. to move away is the best method
To move away start talking to other guys, maybe you would find a better match. Always its better to be loved than just love another.
hope you take one of the two decisions.
2006-11-18 23:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by swifthorse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to let go of him. No matter how much YOU like him, HE likes his g/f more than he likes you. He doesn't want you for a g/f. All of this, "She doesn't deserve him" stuff, is just jealousy on your part. It doesn't make any difference, He doesn't want you for a g/f.
I'm being so blunt because I care about you. I know how it feels to be crazy in love with someone who would rather be with someone else. That was the way it was with my first real love. We dated for a year and she started to talk about us getting married. Then she dumped me for an outlaw motorcycle gang member! I couldn't believe it. I worried myself sick thinking about how good for her I was and how bad for her he was.
None of that who's better stuff made any difference, the fact was that she preferred him over me. You know what? It was her loss!
It took me a long time but finally, I was able to let it go and was able to move on. Please don't take as much time to accept this as I did.
2006-11-18 23:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u care about him and be there when he needs you.. maybe someday he'll realize that you're the girl who understnad him...or if it still doesn't work, try to forget him... that's hard I know, really hard...
2006-11-18 23:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by wonder why 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell hime how you feel
2006-11-18 23:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cory A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋