yeah, so She likes him, and so do i. and we can't really talk to each other about like when he flirts w/ us cause it would seem like we were bragging, and it would hurt the other persons feelings. AND his ex-girlfriend still likes him, and we dunno who he likes. oh and btw, his ex is our best friend, too. THIS IS SOO ANNOYING! should we just ask him who he wants to go out with?? oh, and what should we do if he asked one of us out??
2006-11-18 14:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by leanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
2006-11-18 15:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by iGNORANT GiRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughy. The best thing to do is to talk about it between your friends. Ask them if they would be annoyed if he asked you out or what would they do if he asked them out. I think that if they are annoyed if he asks you out, they should be more reasonable, they should be happy for you. The same goes for you, if he asks one of them out you should be happy for them not jealous. If you tell them this they will think about the same thing and will be more likely to not get mad at you if he asks you out, but be happy for you. Just do not try to compete for him, boys might come and go but friends are forever.
2006-11-18 23:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well neither of you should go out with him again if he asked one of you out because it would STILL cause tension in the future. This is a perfect example of a double side sword. If you go out with him your going to feel bad because your friend also likes him and if you dont go out with him your going to still feel bad because you like him.
2006-11-18 23:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so there is 3 of you who like him and basically your all best friends...easy solution friends before boys. a good friend can be life long boys come and go. none of you should date him. flirting fun just keep it at that :)
2006-11-18 23:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by imnoangel_81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had the same situation w/ my bff. we still talkesd to each other about it. it never got in the way of our friendship.if he asks you out,say yes and talk to your friend and tell her that no matter what happens, you will still be friends.don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
if you have any other questions email me or im me.
2006-11-18 23:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Miley_luvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin, winner get to ask and if he says no...then the other girl gets to ask
2006-11-18 23:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"May the best girl win" Good Luck.
2006-11-18 23:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him a rest and if its ment for you he will come back
2006-11-18 23:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by lyn-lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should all just make an agreement to share him
2006-11-18 23:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get w/ him before she does
2006-11-18 23:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋