Ok...so i like this really cute guy. And I see him every weekend(sports related) and we have SOOO much in common. He makes me laugh/smile and i can't stop thinking about him. But...He's 3 years older than myself. And i don't know if he has a girlfriend(we go 2 different shcools&i'm 2 scared 2 ask). What if he doesn't like younger girls? How do i tell him that i like him? How will he react? PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-11-18 14:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by solonchick101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, how can you tell him you like him if you can't even get up the courage to ask if he has a girlfriend?
The best thing to do is ask him questions - casually. If you guys talk on the weekends or whatever, then bring the conversation around to things like, "So, out of curiosity, do you have a girlfriend?" If he says yes, you have to stay calm and try not to show disappointment. Just be like, "Oh, ok. Cool. What's she like?" You may not really care or even want to know, but if you want to keep the relationship from getting uncomfortable you have to keep your casual cover. If he says he doesn't have a girlfriend you could be like, "Oh really? I must admit I'm a bit surprised. You're just so..." and list one or two things you like about him (he's cute, funny, nice, whatever) "...so I'm surprised you don't have a girlfriend." That can open the convo to his saying why he doesn't have a girlfriend and maybe you can find out what kind of girl he's interested in. If it sounds anything like you, you might have a chance. Hope this helps!
2006-11-18 14:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by twice1203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. 3 years is not that much of a difference in your ages.
2. You won't know how he will react until you talk to him!
3. Ask him simply- do you have a girlfriend?
2006-11-18 22:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of us are mind readers. we dont know how he will react. you have two choices.
1. ask him and it could turn out great or it could not and you would probably feel really embarrassed and maybe even heartbroken.
2. you could play it safe and you'd probably eventully get over him
1 is the quick and painful (maybe) way and 2 is the long and boring way. good luck with your decision.
2006-11-18 23:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. You'll be fine. If he likes you, he'll go out with you for sure. If not, if he really is a great guy, he'll be understanding, so you really have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-18 22:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him...if you dont, you'll never know what he would have said. Plus, he might be feeling the exact same way. Dont worry, just be yourself and you'll be fine
2006-11-18 23:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he wants to do somthing thats not a date but isn with a group...if hes interested he'll make a move
2006-11-18 22:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by BigBat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared and just ask him out thats the best way to do it he might just like you ,you never no until you ask him
2006-11-18 22:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by TYRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even try to ask, hun, that would be so embarrasing if he turned u down.
2006-11-18 22:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sincerely Me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him out see what he does. Be thankfull he didnt die!
2006-11-18 22:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by real girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋