I'm a virgin and I'm worried I won't be able to have sex cos I can't get through it! How do guys get through it?
2006-11-18 14:37:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a girl by the way!
2006-11-18 14:41:14 · update #1
Not all guys will know how to deal with i t- I have to disagree with the one person who said that. An inexperienced guy may not know how to make it easier for you. Some people actually do need surgery on their hymens if it is too thick. Go to a gynecologist and get examined. She will be able to answer your questions and tell you what to expect. The best solution is wait until you are married to a man who loves you and will be understanding and gentle.
2006-11-18 14:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by JerseyMuse 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I can't resist saying," Don't worry about it. Just give me a call and I'll do it for you.".
Now that I got that out of my system, you need to stop worrying about this, the guy will take care of this. I must say, you sound too young to be having sex. There are all kinds of problems that go along with having sex that I suspect you are too young to deal with.
There is potential pregnancy. Contrary to many people's opinion, condoms are not an effective means of birth controll. They are only about 85% effective (What if you are in the other 15%?), and that is only if the boy knows all the do's and don'ts of using them.
They are better than using nothing. Condoms are also not 100% effective at preventing STD's like HIV. If sperm can get to your uterous 15% of the time, since the HIV virus is smaller than a sperm, so can the HIV virus. Oh yes, by the way, an HIV virus infection always turns into AIDS and there is no cure for that fatal disease.
Please wait to have sex until you are at least 18 y/o and the best way is still to wait until you are married.
2006-11-18 22:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the thing!!! the hymen only breaks through having sex for the first time.. and it's called tearing or breaking of the hymen.. and it hurts of course when you have sex for the very first time, and it's very uncomfortable,, and you might have some spotting. they will still insert the penis in the vagina, but the hymen is the small wall but it already has a small opening, but it will break when you have sex.
but really if you are young, then i would really hold off on that.. ding a ling isn't going anywhere and believe me, guys will try to get in your pants until the end of time... so just say no for now, and don't go there, because that's the point of no return. wait for a guy that you been with for a while and when you're grown because there's too much hiv and aids and other stds out there still even with all the info and risks. but if you must, have him use protection, if he don't then don't go for it....
2006-11-18 22:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL girl dont worry about it.....it will happen on its own. Guys know what to expect when a girl is a virgin. Dont stress
2006-11-18 22:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the guy will be abled to get through it. it might take a couple of trys through. tell him to go slow and easy
2006-11-18 22:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dowt worry about it, girl...
Instead you got intercourse, You will not be virgin anymore...
Man has nature to do that exactly...
Even though it is failed for the first, but it must not for times...
A little beat hurt, but you must be glad and happy and be your wonderful experience if you do with your beloved... Finally be your excitement.
2006-11-18 22:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by ayin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a virgin...My dear , when it comes to having sex..Everything comes naturally..
Don't worry about it..Maybe you should try different positions with your partner.
2006-11-18 22:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by rinoao 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop trying to mess with yourself. Wait for the right time and the right man.
2006-11-18 22:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. Wait for Mister right guy to come along and show you real quick how its done. Make him earn the right to get it.
2006-11-18 22:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't worry it will break on its own.
2006-11-18 22:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋