lately ive been noticing this other guy and well, i dont think i like my boyfriend anymore... an also, i never talk or see my boyfriend anymore... like he's too "busy" or something...
the guy ive noticed is a year older, whereas my boyfriend is two years younger... so im a bit confused...
my boyfriend goes to a different school, while the guy i noticed goes to my school...
and im not sure whether or not i should just dump him...because, what if i change my mind?
2006-11-18 14:32:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you really concerned that you'll change your mind, or is it that the guy you're interested in might turn you down (leaving you no back-up)? It's clear what you need to do to save yourself guilt and your bf pain. Tell your guy that you want to still be friends, but that you want to start dating other people. He may be hurt, but not as hurt as he would be if he found out you were doing it behind his back. It sounds like you two are on the decline anyway, and even if things don't work with the new interest, it leaves you open to meeting new guys. Your relationship has probably run its course or you wouldn't even notice other guy, so it's time to end it. He'll get over it. It's not like you were going to marry him or anything.
2006-11-18 14:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're current boyfriend is really too busy for you, then move on, you're only young once. But seriously, before doing anything (don't just dump him), you should have a talk with your boyfriend, find out why he has been so "busy"....... if he can't even find the time to talk to you about THAT, or acts very annoyed, then there's your answer right there (forget him). Besides, if he's 2 yrs younger than you, he may be a little immature for you.
But if he has real reasons for his unavailability, then maybe you want to give him another chance.
2006-11-18 22:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would stick with the guy you have, but if you think about it carefully, and decide that you want to go with the other guy instead, then go for it... But remember that when he's gone you may not ever get him back. So I'd want to make sure you had a chance with this other guy before you ditch your boyfriend because if he says no then you might end up alone! If you do dump him please try to be nice because guys are sensitive too even if they don't show it.
Good luck!
2006-11-18 22:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor Rae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right thing is to be true with yourself We all can look at someone else and say WOW i LIKE THAT OTHER PERSON BECAUSE that is the way it is. But if you really do not like you boy friend then you should break up with him for the right reason and you shouldn't just jump with this other guy so quick give it some time but you can talk to him and you just might find out that he really doesn't do much for you. good luck
2006-11-18 22:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with the other guy and see how things go and find out more about him. If you like him more than dump the poor expecting boyfriend.
2006-11-18 22:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it doesn't look like you have a very good realtionship goin on with ur boyfriend...so i mean...it could stay like that and u'd never know about that other guy
my adivice to u is..ask ur self which one u like more..go from then on...i mean..u could be missing out, something u dont' have now with ur bf..
so all im really tryin to say is..i'd look at that other guy for a bit....see if he likes u..and if he does..go for it..dump the other one...
*follow your heart**
2006-11-18 22:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just really think about it before you do any harsh actions. but from the way you talking, you dont want to be with hi, anymore, and you want to see if this new guy is interested. but dont make and rush decisions, but if u dont like your boy anymore, save both of yall the trouble and end it.
2006-11-18 22:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well leaving a relationship that u are sure about to go for one that u arent so sure about is a huge step maybe u should try getting to know the new guy better and if u guys are compatable well isnt it worth the try?
2006-11-18 22:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go with your heart on this one... Your heart will tell you which one to pick... You sound like a nice young girl who knows what you want and all you have to do is let your heart decide for you...Missy
2006-11-18 22:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend doesn't see you that much dump him because he could be cheating and have have a go with this other guy
2006-11-18 22:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by kelsie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋