Yes my ex wants to be friends, she left me for another guy about 5 years ago, now she calls be out of the blue and wants to be my friend, but there is a surprise she is pregnant, The baby's daddy dont want any part of her or her baby. what do you think?
2006-11-18 14:31:03 · 19 answers · asked by deaftonez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think she only wants you back because she knows your a respectable guy and you will help her raise her baby. Sorry guy I would say no!
2006-11-18 14:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely just because she's in a grieving type stage, in which she just lost the person she was closest to and is trying to reach out the the last person she was that close to, in this case it would be you. It doesn't mean she's asking you for anything major, it could just be that she needs a friend during this time, and you really should be there to support her, even though you stopped talking on bitter grounds, the simple fact is that an old friends needs you to help support her (not necessarily financial, just emotional).
On the twist side, if she is asking for financial support, you need to make sure she understands that you have no obligation to, and unless you have a lot of spare money, should probably ask that she pays you back when she gets the money if you decide to help with the money, and make sure to keep paper trails if you do, as you'd be surprised how many people don't. Again, this is just if she's asking for financial support.
2006-11-18 22:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by digidudetim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG stay AWAY from her. She made her descision to leave you for some loser and now she wants your support. She probably knows you're a nice guy and will help her with the kid. She's just looking for a baby daddy. Don't fall into her trap. She just wants to use you. The best thing to do is break communication with her. RUN! Find someone that has no baggage i.e. a kid
2006-11-18 22:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by dolcevita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's looking for a baby daddy. If you want to be one, see what happens, but if I were you, I'd run.
2006-11-18 22:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be her friend thats cool but don't let her play you as a sucker! She may just be alone and really only need a friend to support her mentaly but don't start buying her baby the things the dad should be buying.
2006-11-18 22:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, she's just trying to get back with you because she needs a 'baby's daddy'. the baby probably isnt even the other guys kid which is probably why shes wanting you to help and why he left her
2006-11-18 22:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Chef Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it has been this long... and she phoned out of no where and being pregnant she probably hope to get back together with you... and perhaps make you the daddy... yep... stay away...... unless you love her still (or if you ever did) and you want to raise her child and be with her go for it.... if not.... then stay away
but be sensitive and respectful about it... she might not be in the happiest state right now
2006-11-18 22:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for a daddy!
2006-11-18 22:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? this should not effect whether you can or cannot be friends. worse case is you try to be friends and it doesnt work out. if that happens then you simple end any relationship friend or otherwise that may have occured from your reunion.
2006-11-18 22:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by babie_girl807 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Methinks she wants ye to be the baby's father, so there'd be someone the baby can look up to....
2006-11-18 22:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋