My neighbor picked a late hour last night to pull up a U-haul and start moving her friend's stuff into her apartment. At 11 pm she starts all this. She & her friends woke up my baby who I had to spend almost 2 hours trying to get back to sleep. This isn't the first time she's been disruptive late, but at 11 pm she wants to move in furniture?! I talked to her this morning and she actually had the nerve to get snappy w/me and say that her friend's husband was in jail and she needed her stuff moved that night, etc. You have to be kidding me!!! Then she starts in on the times we got on to her for letting her son throw stuff in our yard. The kid threw a knife into our yard!!! I told her she was being ridiculous & she tried to use the excuse that she has depression and is on sleeping pills and poor me, blah blah. I told her to cut the crap & that if she can't care for her kid she shouldn't have one & that there is no excuse for doing what she did last night. Am I right to be upset?
2006-11-18 14:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I did go out there last night and ask them to hold it down and they ignored me. I would have done more but my son was my first priority at that point. She told me she had no other choice but to move in that stuff last night because she needed to return the trailer by midnite. That is a crappy excuse. She not only disrupted me but the other neighbors as well. I'm so sick of her making excuses instead of just owning up to her faults. She even called me a skanky ***** and she the one living with some guy in her apartment while her husband is in Iraq! My husband is there too, but do you see me having some guy live with me? NO! She tries to blame her 3yr old son throwing a knife into our yard on her depression and sleeping pills. I have been way beyond depressed before, I was downright suicidal, but I never let that stand in the way of me being a mother because I know I had to pull it together to take care of my son. It was very hard to do, but I was able to do it.
2006-11-18 14:35:22 · update #1
I live in a military housing 4 plex. When I did address her about my exact words were: "I would have prefered you chose a better time than late last night to move in your friend's stuff. I know you all tried to be quiet, but it woke up my son and I had to spend 2 hours trying to get him back to sleep. I'd appreciate it if next time you could chose a more reasonable hour." I wasn't even snotty about it just because I know she's a defensive person, but she always flys off the handle. If I was her I would have thought about my neighbors and waited until tomorrow to unload.
2006-11-18 14:42:53 · update #2
Yes you have every right to be upset. Please be careful about taking matters into your own hands. Take care of yourself and your baby. Call the police let them take care of the inconsiderate neighbor. That is there job to keep the peace not yours. Your job is to be a mother. You also said that you are a wife of a soldier. I will say a prayer for your husbands safe return as well as your situation with your inconsiderate neighbor. God can take care of your inconsiderate neighbor in ways that we know not of.
2006-11-18 17:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Roddi F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have a valid complaint. I live next to a guy who's son would crank up his sound system (complete with sub-woofers) every time his dad was at work. It was so loud, I couldnt sleep and the bass could actually be felt! I finally called the cops on him, and it has been quiet around here since.
Some people are just inconsiderate of others.
2006-11-18 14:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the landlord and also find out if your area has noise ordinances. Next time she is making a ruckus in the middle of the night call the police. I wouldn't keep dealing with this woman face to face as she sounds kind of unstable and belligerent. Ultimately it might be worth it to move out, even though it isn't fair that someone else should make you leave. It might just be worth it to take the trouble to leave because in the long run you will have to continue to deal with this woman, and you don't need the stress.
2006-11-18 14:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, the son is out of control. But my husband owns a moving company, and depending on the time of the move, we may not show up til late at night.....but since she was doing it herself, maybe she was trying to save money by having the truck in back on time. You have every right to be upset if it was just her moving herself. Please forgive other moving companies, who are trying to make money, and have to schedule late. Obviously her kid(s) are out of control. I am sorry about that., that is always the worst experience. I am not taking her side, either she was trying to save money on the truck, or she just didn't give a damn. But she should have been more respectful. She gives others a bad rep. Good luck with her and her kids! I'll pray for you.
2006-11-18 14:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by amandameibeyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11pm is a bit late to have a U-Haul pull up and I'm sure your apartment manager has some kind of rules regarding this type of thing.
I think you are being a wee melodramatic though because what do you expect you live in an apartment complex. This is sadly typical because people have differnt schedules and not everyone has kids and do not understand your situation.
I think you should have taken the higher ground and not made comments about her parenting skills or lack their of.because it causes you to stoop to her level and you are above that i'm sure.
2006-11-18 14:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by cybella27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does her husband being in Iraq have to do with her having to move at 11PM? and what kind of knife did the boy throw? You need to worry about alot more than fighting this chick, the kid could hurt your baby someday accidental (ornot) and you need to move, because there is more trouble ahead. Quit worring about how many boyfriends she has and get out of there.
2006-11-18 15:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 08:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you have every right to be up set .
Talking to her did not work .You might have to call the police and have them deal with her .
there should be a curfew.she should not be making noise at that time of night and her son should not be throwing thing in your yard especially a knife. Hope thing change good luck
Miki
2006-11-18 14:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by miki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to call the Housing Authority, or maybe the MP's? I'm not sure if something like that would fall under their jurisdiction, but if this is a continuing problem, it needs to be sorted out. And her little boy having access to knives is dangerous to your kids and him. He could hurt himself badly. Contact whoever you need to, the police, whoever's in charge on base, whatever. Good luck!
2006-11-18 17:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. And if I were you, the next time she disturbs you late a night, I'd call the police and have her charged with disturbing the peace. There are laws and restrictions for such things.
Hope you and your baby can have peaceful nights.
2006-11-18 14:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by froggy96quebec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋