I have learned that unless you play hard to get and act like you don't care about men, they won't even look at you. But, then if you act like this with some men, you turn them off. Where is the balance? Why can't we just be ourselves?
2006-11-18 14:29:37 · 9 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a great question and i feel the same way. and since i just want to be myself, that is exactly what i do. and if i chick is flirting with me and playing hard to get...i tell her straight out, "im not wanting to play games, i want to get to know you better but if youre just wanting to play a big flirting game, let me know now so that i can avoid wasting my time." most that are just wanting to play games will let you know since they want someone that will play back..and those that dont want to play, appreciate my honesty and let down thier "hard to get" front.
2006-11-18 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by FJ40spencer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh precious. Such a mature question. You are awesome and we need more people like you in this world of Love. Be honest and say exactly what you want or what you mean to say. If the guy is a jerk then move on to one who is honest and straightforward with you as well. If there were more girls like you then guys would not have to learn to be psychic. Honesty is definitely the best policy and don't play the games. You will find someone who is honest and straightforward like you. You go girl!!
2006-11-18 22:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to be yourself, because if you put up a front and play games sooner or later they will find out. When some one likes you or loves you they will do it because of who you really are not who you are pretending to be. Be yourself and stop trying to find love, true love will find you. Its goin to hit you one day when you least expect it. For now just enjoy life, make friends and maybe one of those friends will be your true love. Good luck...
2006-11-18 22:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be like that at all and I do know what you are saying and I think it falls into a controlling game and it isn't fun anymore. You just need to find that one person that is the same. I just do not know anymore.
2006-11-18 22:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause men think it is nice to be hard to get....The more they have to work then the more of a turn on it is for them... But they dont want to work too hard for what they want but they do enjoy working for it....Missy
2006-11-18 22:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself....You won't go wrong if you let the man come to you. True love is NOT about games.
2006-11-18 22:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldn't be about games. If a guy doesn't like you for who you are then he shouldn't have you. If you wait and be yourself there will be a guy that comes around and will like you for who you are.Just be yourself and someone will love it.
2006-11-18 22:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they made laws against scratching your balls in public.
2006-11-18 22:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that it be yourself
2006-11-18 22:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by shanikaking71492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋