i wus chillin by my friend and my bf called and told me he was going to a family gathering to collect something and he asked if i wanted to go so i said ok when we got there it was bigger than i thought so i stayed by the car outside cus am not a "people person" he came outside and asked me to come inside so i said no. Finally when we were on our way back he was totally ignoring me and driving real fast then when we reached by my friends house he told me that i was f*uckin disrespectful to him tonight and he took off my ring and gave me back so i took my SIM out his phone (he lent me cus mine lost) and give him back then i walked inside my friend's house and he sat on the side of the street and started to cry. One of our friends who was liming with me went and talked to him and then he left....next thursday is my bday wat should i do...ps i think i should ignore him and his calls until the day after my bday as revenge because it will eat him up inside if he doesnt see or hear from me
2006-11-18 14:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by Innocence 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry girl but it was disrespectful. I dont blame him for getting mad...you made him look like an *** infront of his whole family. Now they think that you are a bad person and if you love him you will have to prove yourself to him. If not find another man.
2006-11-18 14:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might not want to hear this, but I don't blame him for being mad at you. For you to sit in the car while he went inside with his family was just wrong. Even if you are not a people person you could have just gone in for a few minutes. That doesn't mean that you need to be in there dancing on the tables, but you could have at least made an appearance.... As you can tell, it was not only disrespectful, it was embarrassing to him in front of his family.... Now having said that, you should not go out for more pain. He is hurt and so are you. If you want to work things out with him you need to start trying now, don't wait until after your birthday, that will only cause more problems and you might lose him forever over something that you started....
Good luck... I hope the best for you too...
2006-11-18 14:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he hurt you that bad for you to try something like that. I also think that instead of sending someone else to talk to him you should have went out there and talked to him. I think that ignoring his calls will just make him go find someone else because guys don't always do what you expect them to do.
2006-11-18 14:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can hurt him by paying attention in school, and becoming smart enough to use proper grammar when asking your question. With this new found knowledge you can figure out how to communicate properly, and most likely will be respected more because of it. Visa vee you will not be in this debacle, and will not be forced to show your ignorance.
2006-11-18 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you two find yourselves a nice sandbox. You sound about 5 years old.
2006-11-18 14:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor Fella....find him a new woman!
By the way..."Limin" - are you Trini?
2006-11-18 14:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Fried Plantain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP!
2006-11-18 14:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋