feeling depressed HELP??

Question

i oftenly get very sad... i feel left out at school and that know one likes me. i am shy at times and unconfident without my friends with me. no guys i like even like me. my life isnt bad i have good parents (there very strict tho) and i never feel FREE and happy. i want to feel this way. how can i enjoy life more and get noticed by more guys>???? please answer

Answer 1

it is not true that no one likes you, as u say you feel more confident when your friends are around. i quess that makes you like able because u have friends. perhaps you feel uncomfortable on your own i presume u are young because u go to school. just going to school can be distressful and your age is stressful because you are just learning about yourself. being free and happy comes with a price, and the price is self confidence. learn to like yourself, and understand your limitations, and that u are a important person. learn also to accept some of the things u don't like about yourself, and if possible work on these things u don't like about yourself being more content and self confident in yourself will make u feel more free and happy. u may see a lot of things u don't like about yourself, and feel, that the guys are not interested in you, because they can see these negative things about you. that might not be true, it sounds like your must feel negative about yourself, and it may show in your interactions. don't be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect. if u feel more confident about yourself, and have a sense of humor, that may attract more boysl
good luck, hope this helps, and take care of yourself, a new hairdo or a consultation with a beautician can go a long ways

Answer 2

Yes it is true a lot of these type of feelings can be related to your age and just having to go through it but, if you feel it is more than that talk to your parents about seeing a psychologist. If they don't listen then talk to your schooll counselor. If they don't listen call a hotline. I tried talking to my parents about it more than once throughout high school. They didn't listen and dismissed it as "a phase". It wasn't a phase and it took me getting drunk and dropped off at 2AM on their doorstep to finally get some counseling and I was diagnosed with severe depression. Now after medication and regular counseling I'm doing great. Even if it is just the teenager blues a counselor is a great non-judgemental person to help you through it.

Answer 3

Most of these feelings are just part of being a teenager, a lot of people feel this way and never tell anybody at all, your not the only one. People are attracted to personality, despite what people believe, people look at personality without even realizing it, you just need more confidence and then you have it all. what i did to be popular in school was a stopped caring, completely, i topped trying to fit in, and i found my place..i didn't even want to be popular, but as soon as i gave up fitting in..i found myself really happy and confidnt, and people wanted to be like me for some reason. anyway, it'll all work out, just give it time.

Answer 4

When you focus on yourself, that won't help the situation. You need to get involved with some activity that helps those that are less fortunate. Most schools have community service clubs and/or projects. Help raise money for the homeless, collect food for food pantries, volunteer at a nursing home, read to the blind... You see what I'm getting at? When you give what you are not getting, you feel more at peace.

Answer 5

Listen to good music to get your spirits up then dress sexy to get the boys interested.

Answer 6

love yourself first. try helping others. if you focus on you too much, you'll burn in agony. i'ma guy and i'll help you as a friend [e-mail]. guys love confident women. so try working on that.

Answer 7

try being more assertive,start thinking about other people, if you like to dance, join a dance class, wish I was your age again.