Do you think she is cheating on me???

Question

I have been going out with this girl for six months. Well she has had a few bad things happen to her like losing her job, totaling her car and her Grandma dying. Well, we went from talkin everyday and seeing eachother every now and then, though we live 90 miles away to talking once a week and not seeing each other for over 2 months. What made me wonder is we both have myspace and theres a guy she has called a long time friend, but he seems to be close to her. I was curious so I had a girl I know ask to be his firend, and we saw my girlfriend left him comments about he only has 250 days til he isnt a bachleor anymore, and a imagie thing saying it's good to have a guy who you can come to crying and a mess and he still says your beautiful. Well I called her out on this, and she said he is gettin married to her best friend. It just stuck me as odd that for a guy who is engauged he doesnt have any picutres of him and his fiance, only people he only has pics of him and her. i dunno what goin

I mean is it weird to go to a haloween party with a guy who is engauged but you go as matching costuems? She says she closes herself off when she gets into trouble but do you do that from the guy you tell you are in love with and seem to fall back to a long time guy firend? I dunno what to think I mean she says she loves me on the phone and via text but is it a lie???

Answer 1

She's not gonna tell you that she's cheating, that's a given. He could actually be engaged, but he could also be in love with her and her in love with him and they don't want to stir anything up. I would say to do a little more investigating and don't say anything till you actually have proof that you can provide her with.

Answer 2

Im Sorry But From What Im Getting I Think there Is A Chance She Might Be I Mean Im Not Saying She Is && Im Not Saying She Isn't But It Sounds Like She Might Be You Know.... But Just Tell er You Need To Be Alone 4 Right Now You Have Alot On Your Mind && If She Dosen't Call Or Anything She Wasn't The Right One Anyways && Be 4 Sure To Have Ur Firend That Has His Pg. To See What All She Has Wrote Him After The Break-Up && If She Calls Back && Talks To You About Maybe Getting Back Togethe &7 Give Her Another chance But If The Two Keep On Talking On Myspace That Way I Would Just Call It Off For Good You Know Cause You Know Your Gonna Get Hurt But Wouldn't You Feel Better 2 Maybe Not Be As Close To Her You Know Hope I've Helped Good Luck Hun

Answer 3

I was in the same thing but we been together for 5yrs.. When I was in N.O. for about 2 in a half months she thought I was cheating on her but she found out that I've been working long hours... But any ways.. Talk to her best friend and see whats going on if her friend don't know drop by unaspecttedly to her home but when you get in town call her and tell her a lie that you are on a Vacation for a few weeks....

Answer 4

Well some times you need your space.
But i thank somethings going on with that guy, If not now then maybe in the future.Good friends have a tendency 2 hook up.

Answer 5

Has keeping your nose out of other people's business ever crossed your mind?
If you don't trust your girlfriend, that's one thing, but who are you to dictate which pictures this total stranger should use on his website.
Get a life.

Answer 6

Move on. That is what is going on.

Answer 7

nah shes not cheated on ya yet,, i havent had enough time alone with her yet,lol

Answer 8

yea shes ****** him and you are a ******** for believing her and having a gf 90 miles away she has to get dick from somewhere and you arent there to give it wtf did u expect