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2006-11-18 13:57:18 · 30 answers · asked by stewardess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont listen to anyone of the other answers! i met my boyfriend in a dramatic situation! I barely knew him. but i did know of him, shopkeeper, the day we met, had a bad situation, he took me home when shop shut, we have been together ever since! 10 yrs, 15 year age gap!!!!!still works!
2006-11-18 14:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by carol g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant say 'wrong,' but just likely blindly dumb.
Your emotions are as much linked to the fantasy in your head as to anything else. And as long as you realise that it is a (at this stage) a fantasy, then you are taking control of (as much as you can) the situation you find yourself in.
It's something like 'falling for' the writer of a book ~ what he (or she) imparts of their values through their writing.
In its self, it is valuable as a matter of judging the person, but it depends also on the context of the writing too.
Just do not get sucked in to the fantasy you build, because in some respects, you are falling for an inner you too.
Best Wishes.
Sash.
2006-11-18 14:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to fall in love with a name & age.
Love occurs in stages over time as you discover the other person.
It's not wrong to feel infatuated or "out of sorts" as I think you are feeling now. Hopefully you can pursue this person further & get to know him/her.
2006-11-18 14:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say that it was wrong, I just think that it is not possible to truly love someone until you really know everything about them. Love is not a thought or a feeling but an action. Love requires action- and I dont mean sex.
2006-11-18 14:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That is not wrong. It happens every day. My advise is to get know him/her more, before doing anything. Just talk to the person. If he/she ignores you, or does nothing to answer maybe jsut give it a little time. It might work out.
2006-11-18 14:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no reason why you cannot fall in love so quickly.
my guess is you go through many stages/levels of love and the really deep and satisfying relationships are founded over more time and information.
but hey, if you are enjoying life and getting and giving a lot out of it, then keep going i say.
2006-11-18 14:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is not love. you cannot truly love someone you know nothing about. the exciting part of falling in love is learning all about the person.
2006-11-18 14:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yer love is quite a confusing creature :P
well maybe u think u love a person, when ure not actually for in love with them but for them? if u know what i mean.
well...i guess it happens to everyone, including myself, when you believe it's love but it way off it.
so yer it's wrong coz u only think thats wots happening...
or maybe i make no sense at all :P
2006-11-18 21:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling.
When people r deeply in love, people r irrational. U cannot use logic 2 judge them.
2006-11-18 14:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by exsolister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's a question of right & wrong;you'll need to know a lot more than name & age before you know a person well enough to truly love. infatuation ? maybe.
2006-11-18 14:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by dee k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋