I am a rather large guy who tends to be nice, not a push over but thoughtful and considerate. I am overweight but not, I dont think disgustinly so. I have not had a lot of girl friends, mainly due to the fact that I am big. Why has it been so difficult?
2006-11-18 13:55:20 · 18 answers · asked by gibs_neil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep looking!! I love big guys and I'm sure there are more like me!!
2006-11-18 13:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we live in a shallow, superficial society. However, if more girls would choose the nicer guys who don't look the best you would see a lot fewer questions on here from girls asking why men cheat. The main reason men cheat is because girls pick the better looking guys that know they can have many different women. At some point though some girls get a little older and stop wasting their time chasing the cheatin' gorgeous guys and find an average decent guy to settle down with. Just keep trying and eventually the girls will mature and dump the loser cheatin' gorgeous guys for a nice average guy.
2006-11-18 14:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im saying this honestly how large or small a guys is really doesnt matter to me. You could weight 90lbs or 390lbs and what matters is the person on the inside. If your a wonderful person on the inside that will definatly mean more than what you look like. Im sorry you havent had many girlfriends because im sure your a great guy!!! Just dont get down about it there are some girls out there like me that dont really care about weight. Good luck sweetie and keep your head up!
2006-11-18 14:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for an Asian male to get a BBW, simply because it is hard for a BBW to believe that the one who approaches them, asking for a date, is serious. Most BBWs, not all for there are exceptions to the rules, are used to being the brunt of jokes and the center of attention only to be made fun of. So when someone who is good looking, no matter the race asks them out, it is hard for them to take the guy seriously. Just try to show the female that you are sincere and that you aren't using her as a joke or on a bet, and in time she will come to trust you and give you a chance. Don't give up, for one day the right lovely lady will grace your life with happiness.
2016-05-22 02:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but it is just not attractive on men or woman to look at someone that has rolls all over there body. Why can't you lose the weight go to the gym work out take care of yourself? That is also another reason why woman do not tend to date bigger men, it shows a lack of disrespect for yourself and body, if you can't take care of yourself what makes us think that you are going to take care of anything else. There is also the medical issues that follow the weight, what woman wants to deal with all that comes with it. I know I wouldn't want to. So why do you expect woman to accomadate your weight issues if you won't do anything about it yourself. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something to lose the weight.
2006-11-18 14:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its a confidence thing. We are surround by media that says skinner/leaner is better. NOT!!! I personally like bigger guys because I feel safe :) I hate to hear men say the good guys finish last because they don't (or shouldn't) Any woman that wants a man that's rude and abusive isn't that smart. Well that's my two cents. Hang in there dude a good girl will come around and stay who you are.
2006-11-18 14:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by babiegurl_2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Be proud of who you are and if girls turn you down simply because you are overweight, they aren't worth the bother. I love bigger men, and I know loads more women do. You will find someone, it might just take a while to.
2006-11-18 14:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by tahanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being too selective in girlfriends? If you want them to like you for who you are and ignore your weight/looks then are you doing the same thing?
Most women aren't superficial about weight in a guy. A sense of humor, kindness and honesty are so much more important.
Also, if you lack self confidence, it may show as not being interested.
2006-11-19 09:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight is a HUGE problem when it comes to dating..sorry for the PUN. But it can be overcome with attitude. IF you show self confidence and self worth...it doesnt matter how BIG you are.
Woman need security and to feel safe. If you can provide companionship, security..as in financial and physical..along with a great sense of humor you will be a master.
Just BE YOURSELF!...BE CONFIDENT!...AND GO GET EM!
2006-11-18 14:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by silentguild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are overweight but not? I have thought that some overweight guys were very cute. If you are huge though like way overweight then you might portray a message that you don't care about yourself, and that is not good. You should keep yourself in good shape, not for the world but for your health.
2006-11-18 14:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well ,this coming from an ex fat person The best way to get close to someone is to first know them so that way you knowt hat they dont or do care about your looks but for your personality in other words show what you have to offer not what you cant ok good luck..
2006-11-18 14:00:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋