Why is it that even if a girl has a really pretty face and a great personallity all you are conserned with is her body? You may not realize this but losing weight is really hard to do! Exspecially for a 13-18 year old girl! So whats the deal fellas?
2006-11-18 13:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by *~Cutie pie~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK...I am going to the devil's advocate and say that I am a guy who looks at the girls body even though her face and personality are great. What do you want me to do about it!? I HAVE HORMONES - G-d made me this way!!! Its my nature to do that, so all of those guys answering that they don't look at the girl's body are either gay or full of crap.
2006-11-18 13:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ilya 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i'm 19 dated a girl who was 21 and a little overweight but i didn't mind as she was a nice girl so the weight look wasn't a problem as her personality made up for that, but she was trying to lose weight and she was doing good at it but i still loved her even if she didn't lose the weight.
So i guess some guys are shallow so just ignore those type of fellas and keep an eye out for the more down to earth guys they are out there i'm sure
2006-11-18 22:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Doug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I my self have an weight issue. I would say that it is not just guys. It is people in general, if you look at todays world everone thinks that good looking people are wearing the same size clothes that there kids are. It is not like it use to be when people all lived in the same place almost all there life so they knew you and how good of a person you are. In todays world it is sad to say but almost all people go off of looks first and if you dont have the body of a model or something close to it than they pay you no attention. all I can say is keep you head up there is someone for everyone out there it just takes some waiting for sometimes
2006-11-18 22:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by jaysin2386 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The deal is that magazines, the fashion industry, movie stars and even the local newspapers have given men the perception that thin is good, when in reality it is probably rather unhealthy. And guys don't want to face their friends the next day and get teased unmercifully for dating the bigger girl I guess.
I for one would be happy no matter what a girls body style, in fact I would rather she was a bit thick, possibly even some muscle / athletic legs or as we call them cheerleader thighs....you just have to find guys like me though, but we are definitely there...just keep looking.
2006-11-18 22:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever hugged Jello?
Take care of yourself in the first place. There's nothing worse than a girl with belly fat (roll) wearing a short belly shirt. This goes for guys too. (beer bellies) So many young people who are fat.
It says a lot about who you are...self control, personal responsibility, and self esteem.
Think about what you're eating and how much before you decide to woof it down.
2006-11-18 22:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Logicnreason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If by now you do not have an idea of what really the boys/young and old are after regarding girls specially young girls, you must be a very naive young girl.
2006-11-18 21:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by me_worry? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an excellent point and many an overweight teen has turned into a gorgeous girl. However; Men can't think past today, so it's ridiculous to even mention it.
2006-11-18 21:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all guys are the same and trust me they only care about that because they are shown so its not a natural thing
2006-11-18 21:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she has to have a some what good body.
2006-11-18 21:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by andrew b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your hanging around the wrong guys sweet heart . meat is for the man bone is for the dog
2006-11-18 21:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by treefrog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋