2006-11-18 13:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
first by getting organized
have a schedule for yourself and your kids
allow some free time every day even if it's only for a few minutes and then of course more on the days that you don't work
make sure you leave plenty of time for sleep.
that's so important with our busy lives
make time to praise your children too and tell them how much they mean to you
join a church, visit your local library and spent time with friends and family when you can
give yourself a break
find time for yourself, away from the kids, your responsibilities and everyone else.
Good luck
it won't be easy, but it will be rewarding
2006-11-18 14:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by BIZ Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a spouse ask for more help!!! Or if you can afford a nanny that is a good place to start. I am in the same boat. I am a full time mother/employee!!! I feel like at times that if I walked the laundry to the basement that I have accomplished a huge feat!! No kidding. I can't imagine how you feel with three! But I would also employ your children. I know my 12 year old helps me out a lot at times....even with the laundry. I get exhausted and just have to ask for help at times. So ask for their help if they are old enough. If you want to start a new life well, try getting a new career that will allow you to be at home. I am a mortgage loan officer and have the option to work at home when I am not attending meetings. It may be a good idea to think about that. I wish you lots of luck...it is so hard to be a single mom. Because we care so much about the welfare of our children and they really need their mom!!!
2006-11-19 09:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by One Of The Girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well can you be transfered from the city you live in now to another one. If not start looking for a job in the city of your choice. Once you have a job you're set start looking for a place to live, thanks to the internet you don't have to leave your home to do this. Explain to possible employers your situation, perhaps you can do phone interviews. I'm assuming you are leaving an abusive situation. For this reason I would try to act as normal as possible don't stray from your regular schedule too much. good luck
2006-11-19 17:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Heather T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by getiing help.
i know most people are so independant they try to do it all themself.
family, friends, or whatever source you can find will help you create just enough time for a new theme in your life, but there will be no new life ; it will just be an addition to the life you already lead with your 3 children
2006-11-18 21:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with whatever bothers you the most and then build from the first to 2 to3 and so on Good luck!
2006-11-18 22:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not close to family, move closer. There is nothing like family to love and support you and your kids.
2006-11-18 21:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋