I am in love with one guy. He knows I am not invisible, he even talks to me sometimes. Than one time I was at a basketball game with a couple of my friends, and he asked me out. I happily agreed. We hung out the rest of the night. The next morning in school, he pulled a huge prank on me. Then he dumped me in front of EVERYBODY. I was so embarresed, I cried and left school early. That was friday. Now I do not want to go back. What should I do!?
2006-11-18 13:46:01 · 17 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOh by the way, at the begginning of this i said i am in love with this guy. make that was in love.
2006-11-18 13:47:00 · update #1
omg babes, thats horrible! im so sry for you. :[ i really truly am... but youre going to have to face the music sometime, so you might as well just do it and get it over with. the first days always the hardest but then it gets better, PROMISE. anyways, confront him in front of all his friends. yell and scream and curse at him. tell him what an asshole he is and tell him that you are better than him and dont deserve that kind of treatment. and tell all the girls you know about it so that they wont like him either. thatll show him to mess with you. good luck, hun!!
2006-11-18 13:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by christine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awful. You could get revenge but that won't change things.
I know it's hard to hear (or read) but move on. Take one or two days if you need so, ask some friends how things are going, then come back when you're ready.
If he insists on being an ***, simply put him under the light, saying the truth: "you asked me out, I agree and then you dumped me". Even when his friends might support his macho behavior, many others will see him as he really is: an ***.
2006-11-18 13:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by GN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go back to school!!!! Dont let him get the best of you. You not going back is gonna make everyone think youre weak and a fool. You gotta prove them wrong. You are so much better than that. Dont worry he'll get what he deserves for playin you like that!! What a jerk!!
2006-11-18 13:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sugary Spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a bunch o people beat the crap out of him in front of everyone. I am sorry he did that to you. What a loser. You're not the only victim. I would never embarass a girl like that. I can say you are a better human being than him.
2006-11-18 13:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to do: go back to school, and don't let him know you are upset about it. Show him that you are better than he is. Don't let him know you were hurt. Be the better person, so don't do anything to get back at him. He is obviously a jerk, and you are too good for that!
2006-11-18 13:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by kmputman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U never loved him... u liked him and he oviously isnt special or worth it. go back to school w pride and u did have a reason for crying ur heart was broken ive felt that too. best advice is find someone new.
2006-11-18 14:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by brunnetebabee89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you. I saw go to school with your head held high. Don't even give that loser the time of the day. trust me, people will respect you for that. you are too wonderful to have to deal with a punk like that. be proud of who you are.
2006-11-18 13:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk tall..you did nothing wrong! Get together with your friends and set this jerk up with a prank he'll NEVER forget!
2006-11-18 13:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to school, and when you see him, act like he doesn't even exist, and be sure to act like your normal self. don't give him the satisfaction of letting him see an ounce of emotion of any kind from you. Thats some rejection back, when someone doesn't even acknowledge that you exist.
2006-11-18 13:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by chara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!!!! My heart goes out for you kid!!! Believe me, I know the feeling, and I wouldn't wish it on Saddam Hussein! Best thing I can tell you is to do your best to show them you are going to go on with your life. If they sense you're hurting, they will be like vultures!
2006-11-18 13:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋