I am a virgin and i wuz wondering if you always finish quick the first time. I heard people say they lasted from 10-20 mins. but this doesn't always happen right?
2006-11-18 13:43:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it wuzn't my friends it was people on here i heard saying they lasted around that long their first time. and i'm 18.
2006-11-18 13:53:52 · update #1
James,
Any boy that has ever told you that he lasted more than 10 minutes is a liar. A liar. Every man finishes early, however, there are exceptions. If you masturbate a lot, you can gain control of your penis. So, in the end, if you don't want to come quick your first time, you need to practice controlling, or holding back.
2006-11-18 13:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Adelie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is the same how long you last has so many different things that it depends on. A person may last 10-20 min in the morning and that night it could me 30-40 min it. I guess what i am trying to say is there is not an average amount of time for that each and every person is different.
2006-11-18 21:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by jaysin2386 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I think the first you have sex you have to make sure your comfortable and ready, which I think can be a lot of well foreplay and getting used to being completely naked and kinda knowing your gonna have sex. But the actual sex part I think usually takes at least 10 mins. Plus if you are having sex with another virgin it can take her a while to adjust to it. Usually a few times of sex for her.
2006-11-18 21:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be short your first time regardless. The best idea is to go at it once, wait a while (I think a half an hour to and hour) and go at it again. You'll last a lot longer the second time. Also, foreplay will help make it last longer, particularly if you're doing more for her in that regard than she is for you.
2006-11-18 21:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by neogeoloco@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people that tell you that they lasted 10-20 minutes the first time ar LYING!!!!!! It takes a while to learn to last !
2006-11-18 21:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your pals are bullshitting you...I betch they never got passed the first three hairs and they made glue....But not to worry cuz whne you are young you can do it 8 or 9 time in a row and this is the truth. You have to stop cuz it actually hurts shooting nothing out.
2006-11-18 21:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by ray b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the wierdest question i have seen!!! I really dont know !!! Ask a adult, maybe they will tell you!!! i cant cause i am in middle school but hope you figure it out!! And how long you take depends on the person!!
2006-11-18 21:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by spongefan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a guy it could be over in a few sexonds but I think ALOT depends on the place your at and who your with and IF your ready.
2006-11-18 21:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it pretty much always finishes fast hon. don't worry about it though. you have many years to make it last a long time.
2006-11-18 21:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not normal to "finish quickly." if you "finish quick" you are probably abusing yourself with your hand and teaching your body to "lose it quickly" you have have to learn to keep control by holding it back when you feel it coming.
2006-11-18 21:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋