can any body help??? i just got out of a 5 yr relationship and i think im falling in love with this great guy!! i think he likes me too everything he does he makes me feel so special the only problen is i dont think he like the way my body looks i really like him and want to do everything to make it work..
basically i would walk to the end of the earth to see him plz help!!! ahhhhhhhhhh
2006-11-18 13:30:40 · 12 answers · asked by littleliddy2 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
You need to take some time out for you. No one can love you if you don't love yourself. If the guy really cares for you then he likes you and your body the way they are. Also if you go through life pleasing and trying to please everybody else you will always be an unhappy soul.
2006-11-19 06:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by quietgirla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he doesn't like the way your body looks there are two things you can do. One:
leave the jerk - he should love you for who you are *yes we all say this and it's not that easy but... it's true!*
or you can try to figure out what he doesn't like about your body, see if there is anything you can do to change that *not like cosmetic surgery!* - something as simple as excersize if it's something like he doesn't like that you're not toned or something... but if it's something that is beyond your control, or even the matter that he doesn't like you the way you are, you may want to find a guy who truly likes you for you and will love every inch of your body - perfect or not.
Do you know for sure what he doesn't like?
That would be helpful to know that. And also, sweetheart, remember that you need to be happy with yourself before anyone will be happy with you. You are important more than this guy and you should walk to the ends of the earth for your own self worth, not what some guy thinks of you. Stay strong, respect yourself, and be healthy.
cheers
-laura
2006-11-18 22:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by totoro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be vulnerable considering you just got out of a 5 yr relationship so be cautions about this guy he may be playing on your vulnerability. All these things he is doing for you has you feeling on top of the world because you feel so lousy about your recent break up be careful don't set yourself up for failure.I thought I found love soon after a I got out of a 4 yr relationship but I realize months later guys sense vulnerability and he was just using me. It hurt like crap but I dealt. Give your wounds time to heal before you jump into another relationship. There are things you need to think through so that you can be better prepared for you next relationship and not bring past relationships into your new one.
2006-11-18 21:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Conservative 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he will like you the way you are...it sounds cliche but its true...you dont say what you think he dislikes...or whether you are happy with your body the way it is...sometimes we put our own fears onto others...to be honest if you are confident this will make you sexier to him and yourself...feeling your own confidence is very powerful and sexy...if you believe in yourself the world will too because they will see it in you...just be natural, confident and he will love you...unless youre a total fruitcake of course in which case nothing anyone can say here will help,lol...i hope this helps...;0)
2006-11-20 20:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what? If a guy really likes you no matter what your appearance is? He wont care. But just to boost your morale, try exercising to give your skin some glow.Do not overdo your make up and do not over react. Just be yourself.
2006-11-18 21:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if he really likes you and he's a good guy he dosen't care about the way your body looks. Be happy with yourself and what you look like.
:)
2006-11-18 23:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by tina18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love Yourself.
2006-11-18 21:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer w 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you she shouldn't care about looks....you might want to do a major re-assessment if he is making comments or anything, no guy is worth losing you self-confidence and happiness
2006-11-19 01:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by penguingal101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the movie "The Secret" Them rethink things. It will change your life. Don't worry things will work out.
2006-11-18 21:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Christina Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun go for these kinda guys. If he likes you, he would accept you for who you are.
Either that or find a way to get over your insercurities.
2006-11-18 21:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jean 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋