i am seeing a guy, He says he is not married. yet. i am afraid that he is. what are some questions i can ask? i dont trust myself anymore to make that kind of judgement. I need some help.. please.....
2006-11-18 13:04:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you think he is married....in a lot of states you can look up marriage cert. online. If not follow him one nite and see where he goes.
2006-11-18 13:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where do you live, his phone number,does he have children.where do you work, let me meet some of your friends,what does your parents think about us,do you have brothers&sisters if so there names,where does he eat lunch at , can you meet him for lunch,can you go over to his home and make dinner for him, look in his glove box,see how his car is reg. tell he you what more than and afair,what ishis intentions in life,where does he shop for clothes cause most wifes do the shopping,also gro. stores so if he takes you to his home you will see food labels,take you shopping and see if he uses ccard, if he says he can't be with you on holiday's ask why,drive by his house,if you get address go and see who answers the door if married tell his wife because if he is cheating on her he is no good. then the two of you go and find a hero and leave that "0"that will learn him,that he can't have his milk&spice at the some time!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 13:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by donna_brown806 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I started daiting with a man a lot alder than me last week, but before that I made sure he wasn't married. What I did to begin with was to ask him, Do you have a wife, girlfriend, boyfriend (to make him laugh), just ask, there's nothing wrong with that, asking who he lives with, phone him late at night to his house phone number, ask him to take you to his house to have a drink, those things will help you realize if he is or he isn't
2006-11-18 13:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is simple. Just make arrangements for the two of you to spend all of Thanksgiving and Christmas together. Have him take you out to very public places so you are seen together. If he can spend the holidays with you and be seen in public with you he is not married.
2006-11-18 13:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Suggest meeting his friends or his parents. If he hesitates that's a sure sign. Ask for his home number and address, if he hesitates or you find out he doesn't live there, he's probably married or has a significant other.
2006-11-18 13:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever been to his house? If he is married he will not live alone, right?
Try looking him up on the internet, see who all lives at his address.
2006-11-18 13:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to do stuff or go places with you, that you feel that could make him feel exposed case he is married. if he's married he will try to find some kind of excuse.
2006-11-18 13:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just check at the court house
2006-11-18 13:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try asking him, "Are you married?" Just cut to the chase.
2006-11-18 13:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
check his wedding ring finger ,even if he is taken it off it will still leave an imprint, ask to meet his family does he have to always be home at night?
2006-11-18 13:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋