This girl has been cheated on by her last two guys. One of them is her husband and father to her 5 yr old daughter. The other is her total loser ex-boyfriend. She "fell hard" for me or so she said one night and the next thing I know, she's incredibly angry at me. It turns out that she swore I told her I didn't have an (incredibly stupid) myspace.com account. But I DID tell her. She HATES myspace and I guess that's where her ex cheated on her through. So she was mad at me for something I didn't even do. I terminated the account altogether and she said I could just secretly go and make another one. That really hurt me. I love her like crazy and would never cheat on her, but how do I convince her to trust me and fall head-over-heels for me again??!? Please? Thank you!!
2006-11-18 12:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by snowfreeze3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry but I have to agree with chickybab..on this one. If she has got a problem with her two previous b/f's husbands whatever that is not your problem. You should not have to kiss her a** because of it. Everyone is entitled to trust until they do something to mess up that trust. If you have never cheated on her and if she did not see anything on your myspace that would make her think you are cheating on her then you should not have to suffer for what someone else has done to her. It is one thing to have empathy for someone but it is another thing to let someone treat you like a door mat because of other peoples mistakes. If I were you the only thing I would be trying to make her feel is stupid for the way she treated someone who obviously cared about her a lot more than the other two jerks she had dated previously. Now she can live with the fact that someone else will have what could have been hers and the only person to blame is herself.
2006-11-18 13:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i don't think she was ready to have any kind of serious relationship. yes i understand that she has been hurt. but she now has some trust issues and until she can work through them. I'm afraid she will not trust anyone. but if you really do care about her,don't give up.take things a little slower. maybe you are rushing into things and she is just not ready.send her some flowers telling her that you are sorry and that you are thinking about her.be patient.
2006-11-18 13:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is being kind of childish. You just have to remind her that you are...whatever your name is...and not them. If she is willing to give you a chance, then she's ready...if not, then maybe she wasn't ready to begin with. Once someone loses trust, it's very hard for them to get it back. I went through three losers before metting my hubby. But, I know that each new relationship needs to begin with trust. She needs to figure that out also.
2006-11-18 13:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you need to re-read what you wrote....do you really want to be with someone like this? She does have total trust issues but needs to understand that everyone is not the same. I think you should re-think your relationship with her.
2006-11-18 13:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have to answer this question with one of my own.
Can you find your butt when it itches.
Dump the nut case.
2006-11-18 13:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by gobobgo55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get off the internet stupid.
2006-11-18 13:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
she is a wackjob, that should of received counseling years ago, pay no attention to her, I know that is hard, but is the best thing to do
2006-11-18 13:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋