me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months now hes really special to me of course but tonight we had a very blah convo.i told him he dosent treat me like he used to he claims becuase its a "new him" we went back and forth he said he would try but what i want to know is should i break up bcuz im really tired of how hes been treating me lately but should i stay bcuz he said he will try i just need sum clarity i know at the end the choice is all mines but help would be appreciated.
2006-11-18 12:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by baby_tiffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats right, you do need some clarity...
2006-11-18 12:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a close call if you want an honest opinion. He may very well be willing to change...but on the other hand he may not change and it will only be harder to break up later on in the future since you may grow more attached to him. I think you should stay but together but if he doesn't show signs of changing after 1 month than i think its best you just end the relationship before it gets harder to do so. Im sorry your in that position.....
2006-11-18 13:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Reneg@de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are completely right the choice is yours. I am in 9th grade and I have had the same boyfriend since 5th grade. I would say for to just go with what your heart says. If you really want an opinion though I would say dump him. If you are tired of this and he hasn't changed then he is not the right one. Srry.
2006-11-18 13:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by smartgrl_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to give more time just a little cuz he could be write there and u brake up with him before it's to late. when you feel like it's been to long , don't stress out your self brake up wit him if u keep on asking him to change and he says he's trying but u don't see it he'll get fed up and walk out. try to get use to the new him maybe the new him is not so bad, the guy can't always do the things taht he use to all the time he gets comfortable wit u and thinks he don't have to anymore b cuz u accept him as he is u have to try different things or u migt loose him & he could be the one.
2006-11-18 13:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by jessica t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys can be really confusing. first get some clarity though, i agree. he may have some problem that you dont kno about, family life or somethin. but the thing is boys start acting wierd when theyre tired of the relationship...listen to your heart and dont hold back thinking that he loves you while hes acting stupid
good luck :)
2006-11-18 13:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u've reached the point where a person finds out if he or she really feels love. I'm in a similar situation, i feel that things are not the same as before, but i know i love her, i think i should be asking the same question as you, sorry i couldn't help
2006-11-18 13:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Leon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about it.
if you break up with him you are telling yourself that you don't need him anymore.
think about how you feel about him and why you no longer need to feel it.
give him a chance and if all doesn't go well, you'll have to let him go :/
i hope i helped =]
best of luck to your relationship
2006-11-18 13:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again. He needs to give you a better explanation then that. If he can't come up with one, then you need to decide if he's worth it.
2006-11-18 13:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really up to you even though i think every guy deserves a chance. trust him and if it doesnt work get out.
2006-11-18 13:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treat you like a princess he's not worth it.
2006-11-18 12:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋