to live with your best friend/ex boyfriend and his son,when your only 17.
okay this is what is happening. my ex boyfriend/best friend who is only 17 now, is leaving with his mom to move to north dokota untill he is 18 (which is in 2 monthes) he will move back and get an appartment. Then when i turn 18,(in two years,im only 16) ill move in with him and his son. is that okay or should i move someplace else for college???
2006-11-18 12:52:59 · 16 answers · asked by swimgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am going to college but ill live with him!!! instead of living in a dorm. my moms not to happy with itbut..owell
2006-11-18 12:56:50 · update #1
what you need to do is concentrate in school/college, think about your future, i know you don't wanna be a 16-year old step-mom, do you? no way. you're only16, you can have a way better life than that. Think about it. Best of luck........
2006-11-18 12:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by La Morena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be ok if that's how it worked out? Well, yeah- if you both were alright with it.
Chances are though that in two years your plans will change, you'll find other people that you'll want to stay with in college, or another college that you'd be interested in.
Don't base your college decision on anything other than yourself and the college.
2006-11-18 20:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most 4 year colleges require freshmen to pay dorm fees, so its smartest to live in the dorms. in special cases, exceptions are made, but i don't think they'll make one for a teen girl who wants to live with her ex. just doesn't look good. and plus, living in the dorms gives you the best way to meet people who go to college with you, and youre in an environment that encourages success in college. believe me, i live in a dorm right now, and i wouldn't have it any other way. if you go and live with your ex, you wont be encouraged to study, you'll probably fight with him alot, and you'll be too caught up in keeping the house clean. chances are you'll drop out of college. do yourself a favor, move into a dorm in college instead of starting out on the wrong foot.
2006-11-18 21:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by o_snap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Siwmgirl:
You are still a very young person, a whole life awaits you, new horizons, new friends, and in two years lots of things may happen, so do not cling to other people's future and family situations yet.... be a wise person, think about nurturing your brain with knowledge and wisdom.
2006-11-18 21:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Malvina Fortuna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's 2 years from now!
He already has one kid. Are you trying to give him another, cause that's what will happen when you move in with him. And don't forget the baby-momma-drama you'll have to deal with.
Forget about him. Forget about living with him.
Concentrate on graduating high school.
Go to college and forget about him.
2006-11-18 21:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, if you can live in the dorms honestly then do it. And plus, why would you want to live with an ex boyfriend? boyfriend I can understand, but an ex? find a different place to live, you don't need that kind of drama
2006-11-18 20:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't miss the opportunity to go to college especially for a guy. All it will leave you with is regret. Go to college and get an education then maybe if you still want to you can move in with him but please do go to college it is a once in a lifetime opportunity.
2006-11-18 20:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16...I can guarantee that whatever plans you make will change WAY before you turn 18.
2006-11-18 20:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 college gurl u dont want to get stuck in the future.
2006-11-18 20:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by PrCutiePie93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move someplace for college.Good luck.
2006-11-18 20:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋