How do i know if God hears me?

Question

my first love dumped me a couple if months ago......no matter how hard i tried to hate him, i just end up falling in love with him all over again....he broke my heart and now has someone new.....ive tried talking to new guys but it seems like my ex stays in my mind.....i deep in my faith but i feel maybe im not doin something right because it feel;s like God dosent hear me....im not giving up on him and i remain faithful to the Lord even wen things get worse and everyone says that things will get better...but my life seems like its taking a turn for the worse ivw lost my family, my friends, and the love of my life.....wat should i do? countinue praying? or try something else? Is God listening to me cry every nite? Is he feeling my pain that i have this whole Year? If he has how come he is not helping me?

Answer 1

Sometimes God is silent. He wants to know if you are serious about Him. Continue to pray and don't give up. Your consistency in prayer will make you stronger. I feel for you and please know that regardless of what people tell you, you are precious in God's site, and He cares about you.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry you have had to go through such hardships. I do know that God hears you, and He does understand the pain you are going through, and He will help you. Perhaps He is training you to be more patient, for one thing. It's only been a couple months since you split up with your boyfriend. It takes time to heal. You WILL heal, but it just might take more than a couple months, that's all. So hang in there. You will get over him. And when you do, you will one day see that it was a wonderful thing that it did not work out between you and him. All things work together for good. There is someone else that God has in mind for you, and when you do meet him, everything will all fall into place.

Continue praying, read Scripture (psalms are good, and Philippians 4), and try to develop patience to wait on God to do marvelous things in your life in His own perfect time. Meanwhile, He IS there for you, carrying you through this. Tell Him exactly how you feel, that you are wondering if He is even listening, and tell Him you need to know that He is really there. I think He will make Himself known to you.

Answer 3

Hi, I know you are hurting right now, and it real hard to get over your first love, but whatever you do never forget that the God always hears our prayers, at times it may seem as if he is not hearing us but he is right there beside us guiding us, sometimes because we love someone so much we automatically block out the voice of the lord telling us that this person in not the right one for us, try getting yourself involved in activities to help take your mind off this person and also encourage yourself that with this person gone it only leaves room for the Lord to bring the right person into your life. Just remember to put God first and He will give you the desires of your heart once He sees it is right for you.

Answer 4

Firstly if your deep in your faith then you should know you should not hate anyone... life is about experiencing and learning and you both have had your time together.. think of all the good things that came from your relationship and what you have learnt from it... it will get easier over time.
In regards to your prayers.. you are heard always and if you care to look at other signs around you then you will see. Sometimes we just dont take in other things that are just the normal visual and audial. Signs are everywhere.
SMile and be happy for things will get better.

Answer 5

it's God, he always hears you.

as for your ex, maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Over time I am sure you will get over him. It's only been a few months I wouldn't rush it.

Don't worry about hooking up with other guys right now you need sometime by yourself. Get to know yourself.

keep praying but also go out and try to do things that will make you life happier.

Try and make new friendships.

Answer 6

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all things will be given to you. If you make your life about finding this guy or that guy, you will have these things, like you described, happen to you over and over. If you make your life about seeking Jesus Christ, learning His word and learning to be a doer of His word, God will order your life and bring you the right person at the right time.

Having done both of these...I recommend the latter as the one that works. God does hear, does care, and will give you a beautiful life, if you turn it over to Him.

Answer 7

Wow. You really have been through a lot. I don't know if God hears you but I know that a lot of people with caring hearts will listen. Please do find a good counselor you can trust and talk about how you feel. Don't suffer alone! Go get the help and support you deserve. There are lots of community resources for this and most insurance will cover it too.

Answer 8

God is listening to you, He also cries with you. He will not live your life for you and you will not be any good to him or any one as long as you hold on to pain. Everyday the sun comes up and we get a new chance. Make the most of yours and get back in the game.

Answer 9

God isn't there to respond to our every whim. He has provided you with life and the intelligence to make your way through it. He has given you family and friends for support.
Did you ever think that what you want may not be in your best interest and that's why your prayers aren't answered.
there's an old expression: "CAREFUL WHAT YOU PRAY FOR, YOU MAY GET IT".

Answer 10

God hears you...He knows your needs before you know them. He allows things to happen in our lives but does not cause them. We have free choice to do what we want. Yes that means even the person who may have hurt you. He feels your pain and it hurts Him to see you hurt. But one day Jesus will come for all those who accept Him and confess and repent of their sins...then there will be no more pain, sorrows,or tears.