We have been together for three years and we have a son, but the sex life is getting boring. I want to try anal sex to bring something new into our bedroom, I just dont know how.
2006-11-18 12:26:13 · 19 answers · asked by pretty_bitch84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Open your mouth and just tell him.
2006-11-18 12:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Topez 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him your bored in the bedroom. Just ask him what would he think about Anal sex and tell him you are curious to see how it feels. I think he would like the idea. He might have been wanting to ask you and didn't know how you felt.
I am sure you both will love it.....just use plenty of lube.
2006-11-18 12:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think by now you should be comfortable saying “honey, lets spice things up a bit….what do you think about anal sex?” But if you aren't, then you can start out small but introducing sex toys, such as a butt-plug, to get him used to the idea and then work from there.
Good Luck!
2006-11-18 12:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by JQP 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it would nicely injury. till he's prepared to pass so slow which you will no longer cramp up. meaning, no longer beginning along with his penis. It takes coaching which will ok take various sessions. i does not propose it in the adventure that your adult men are actually not already attracted to anal play. in case you do no longer like it if he sticks a (gloved) finger into your bum, then you definately are actually not likely to like it if he tries to insert his penis. that may no longer something you will possibly desire to be doing for him; do it when you consider which you prefer to, or do no longer do it in any respect. in case you come to a variety you prefer to attempt it, have him pass incredibly slow. initiate with that finger, and ascertain that feels delicate first. constantly use quite some lube: the anus isn't self-lubricating. ascertain he's arranged to stop as quickly as you're saying stop, and to call it quits for immediately in case you initiate cramping up. You in actuality might desire to be in charge or that's not going to artwork. Please examine the object appropriate under, and make him examine it, too.
2016-10-04 03:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by esannason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him his thoughts on it first before you tell him you want to try it. Getting his opinion will tell you if he's up for something or not. Then just go from there.
2006-11-18 12:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by sixnow25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! I go commando in mini skirt for him so ijust told him I would like to try it. Now we do it every week andI love it. It hurts at first and you fart a lot after but its great!
2017-03-15 09:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some ultra glide and tell him you have a gift for him in the bedroom.ask him if he knows were it goes and you want to give him something new.buy toys offer them as a gift tell him the deal is he has to play a game and find out were you like them on your body,
2006-11-18 12:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Simple, just tell him what you want. As for how, just bend over and point. LoL
2006-11-18 12:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by lee3620111 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with him, away fromt eh bedroom and take it from there
2006-11-18 12:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should Waite till Ur having sex and try Ur new ideas out..or buy some sex toys or..u should juss Waite till hes sleeping and go down on him and wake him up.............and then try Ur new sex toys,positions out......hope i helped bye bye now...................................
2006-11-18 12:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋