So I was hangin out with this guy ( a friend) and he told me that we had to be all or nothing. That if we weren't going to be together then we better not be friends and hang out? And I didn't want a boyfriend, so now I've lost a friend =(... I'm a senior in highschool, and we were going to a dance together and he told me that we shouldn't go to the dance either, so now I'm dateless.... gr.... stupid boys, why are guys like this??
2006-11-18 12:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not all guys are jerks. Some guys do eventually grow up and realize what life is all about. If l was you l wouldn't worry too much he is obviously still young and immature, give him time ( if you want to ofcourse) maybe he will grow up and learn how to treat girls with the respect they deserve. Find yourself another dance partner and friend and leave him be. His loss you will be fine, Trust me !!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 12:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit immature but try to see it from his point of view. Depending on how long he waited before asking you, he may have put a lot of emotional investment into the idea of the two of you as a couple. Now that you (possibly) blew his dreams apart, it would be torture for him to spend time with you without being your boyfriend.
Don't worry though, he will probably come around once his sadness subsides.
He may well be asking someone why are girls jerks because he got rejected, I mean what's the worst that could have happened? All he wanted was a chance.
2006-11-18 20:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by caxu_hax0r_ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
? why don't u want a bf? ur crazy. He isn't wrong or crazy, not if he likes u. It's much to hard, for now at least. Maybe by the dance u will. Cuz the dance aint for a long time, or at least till dec/jan right? So u won't be dateless, u have time. I didn't give a ****, and never went.
2006-11-18 20:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are that way because they only want to get in your paints. Some will pretend to be your friend just for that reason alone....And the fact that he outright told you that eithet you two be had to all or nothing and the fact that now you are dateless to the dance tells me that he only had one thing in mind when it came to you
2006-11-18 20:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask the same question all the time. I think it is because they want to be in control over everything. I only wonder if they can really be friends with the other sex. Find someone else to take you to the dance that might make him jealous and he might come around then. Good Luck
2006-11-18 20:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are jerks, they just don't realise that some of the things they say are rude and hurtful. That's why you have to speak up when they say something that hurts you!
2006-11-18 20:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an idiot. Look for a nerd to go with and the nerd will treat you right.
2006-11-18 20:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but its cuz theyre stupid boys who act like igmos 2 every1...lol i understand girl....believe me!!!!!! :D
2006-11-18 20:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Counting the Days. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we jerk off
2006-11-18 20:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think they have balls
2006-11-18 20:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by i am who ever u say i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋