He is in hospital 25 days and no one contacted us. I feel we need closure and say farewell. What do you all think?
2006-11-18 12:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Annie Mae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree with you. It is very important to have some kind of closure, and to be able to remember the good things about your brother. For your own well-being, you should do so. If anybody is against it, they can choose not to attend, and you won't be upset with them. People handle grief in their own way, and that should be respected. But yes, have a memorial for those of you who will benefit from it.
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2006-11-18 12:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had to hear about your brother's passing in such a shocking way. You definitely should have a memorial for him. You need to do whatever it is to give you closure and deal with your loss.
2006-11-18 13:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by linnie20022000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you go ahead and have a memorial service for him it will help you all to heal by marking and celebrating his life.I am so sorry for your loss but I think you do need closure and a service will help with that. God Bless you and your family.
2006-11-18 12:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
provide it time, properly i think you have. yet dont placed the burden of the dating on intercourse. A dating will contain better than only intercourse. there could be somebody else accessible for you only dont look so difficult and stable success. I dont think of your husband could be mad in case you moved on because of the fact he sees how a lot you preserve him, he's familiar with and you be conscious of yet a woman desires a guy in her life and that doesnt make you a bad man or woman while you're in choose for of somebody. you will consistently love him and your next guy if he's one would be conscious of and understand which you will consistently have emotions for the single that has exceeded.
2016-12-29 05:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by boynton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wounder why you did not get told ? And yes i would,We have get together every now and then and remember our loved ones,I even made a flower bed in my yard and put up small crosses just to have them in memory.
2006-11-18 12:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by helen l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How bizarre that you didnt know he had died. There is nothing wrong with having a memorial even if it is just a private thing at someones house.
2006-11-18 12:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A memorial service would be nice.
Have you considered having it on the anniversary of his death?
2006-11-18 12:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely have a memorial.
2006-11-18 12:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
awwww, that's horrible...really, i think you should have a memorial for him...everyone deserves a celebration of their life, which is the true meaning of a funeral...chin up my dear
2006-11-18 12:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with whatever you do.
Sorry about your brother ]=
2006-11-18 12:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋