I meet a guy on the net. We live 4 thousands miles apart. he did come to see me in week, and stayed for a week. We both had a very had time saying goodbye when it was time to leav.e We both felt, it was like we already knew each other and we were meant for each other. We leave emails all the time to each other. He says he is going to come here and we will live our lives togethr. But, there is always reasons why he can't come soon. His mom, his job..his house. Am i lving in a dream land and hanging onto a dream that never will be?..We are both over 30.. Has anyone had this type of relationship?
2006-11-18 12:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by sticky J 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry...just addding..he does not live with his mom. She is in a care home..He is her only son.I know..as I put this down, it does sound selfish of me. )-:
2006-11-18 12:32:39 · update #1
No, you're not living in dreamland. Things such as this happens in real life and can indeed work itself out. The main thing though, for the both of you is to be more patient. Allow time for things to work themselves out. I was in a similar situaition where I had meet a friend over the net and things turned out good in the beginning. She also lived miles and miles away from me, 13 hours to be exact. And I too, went to visit her and everything, made plans to move to where she lives but she got a little impatient about the entire process and called it quits because in her words, she wanted someone there to hold hands with and to be with whenever she felt the need, she didnt want to wait on it...
I will say this though, since he's over 30, still living with parents, etc....Then you may want to think about stability, does he have it? IIs stability something that you want, etc??? Does he have any real obtainable goals, etc......You should consider all of those things
2006-11-18 12:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, can't it be scam? His mom? I am sorry, he is 30, it is time to live his mom if he has one, is she is sick or smth he can find a person to take care of her for a while. I mean I had this type of relationship, and I know a lot about it, but this makes me think that he really does not think of a relationship too much. I guess he will be very busy for you all his life. Maybe I am wrong, who knows, but jobs and moms is not a problem.
2006-11-18 20:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a relationship like this, but obviously it isn't a dream. If you're sure about him give him time and she what happens. I hope you the best of luck in your life.
2006-11-18 20:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, it was about sex not a relationship. Sorry but you need someone local who can be there for you.
2006-11-18 20:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya hes prolly married with kids
2006-11-18 20:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by i am who ever u say i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very careful!!
2006-11-18 20:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋