i stuff my bra even thoguh im already a b cup at 12! i stuff my bra at night with a lot of tissue and do lap dances for my guy friends. Is this really wrong and how can i stop bc its starting to not feel right anymore!
2006-11-18 12:11:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
uhhh....i no lap dance isn just dancing....im a how you say "grown up" 12 year old!
2006-11-18 12:15:59 · update #1
just stop. Its not a drug. plus you will look better not stuffing. stuffing looks fake.
2006-11-18 12:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is definitely not typical 12 year old behavior. You need to stop putting yourself in situations where you end up dancing for the guys. I would hope that this would be as simple as staying home, or going to a girlfriends house where there won't be any guys. You also need to seek some help, either from your parents if possible, or try a neighborhood church. There is still hope for you, I don't think your a bad person, your just on the wrong path. You need to take the first step to get turned around, and then find somebody that can lead you the rest of the way.
2006-11-19 00:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are asking for advice on how to stop you've obviously figured out that what you are doing isn't right for you. I honestly can't see how it would be "right" for any 12 year old girl. If you find that you can't "just stop" as others have suggested you might want to consider talking to someone about it like a school counselor, social worker, or some other adult you trust. The reason you do the dances and stuff your bra may be to get attention or because you think boys won't like you if you don't. Be strong and know that you'll feel better if you respect yourself and your body.
2006-11-22 15:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's swap around your priorities first. Forget your bra for a second, and stop giving guys lap dances. Just stop. It isn't even cool when an adult does it to her guy friends, and sure as hell isn't cool when you do it. You don't want to have to live down that reputation forever. Yes, this is really wrong.
Anyhow, about your bra: your breasts most likely fit your body type. Be proud of what you've got without embellishment. Not proud enough to lap dance, but proud. As your body continues to develop, stuffing your bra will make you look awkward and out of proportion. Over a month, use less tissue, and nobody will even notice. If they do, just tell them you've lost weight.
2006-11-18 20:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is in appropriate and I am 12 and I wear an A cup bra so I think you should not stuff your bra anymore and do not do lap dances for your guy friends.
2006-11-19 11:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lap dances are wrong at 12yrs old....
I'll let you in on a little secret... most women who are 18+ reserve the lap dances for special occasions for only the ones they love... only THEN does a lap dance feel "right".
As for stuffing your bra.. I suggest you don't risk the embarassment of having others find out. Just stop stuffing.
2006-11-18 20:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is wrong...i am also 12 so i understand what ur talking about...just start taking out tissue little by little and stop the lap dances before you get a reputation as a slut
2006-11-18 20:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seriously do lap dances for your guy friends. No way.
If I'm wrong, and you really do, then you need to develop some self-respect. Women are terrific for more than just their bodies. Those guys need to get to know you for who you are, not how hard you can grind on them and get them excited.
The bra thing is up to you. I encourage you just to be yourself, but if tissue paper makes you feel better, knock yourself out.
2006-11-18 20:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that it's not right then yopu shoulid really stop. You're doing it probably to seek for attention... You're too young to do it! Here's what I can advise you to do...
1. Think before doing it. Before even doing it, Consider what could it do to you. You're making yourself easy to get and lowering your self worth my dear. Your dignity as a lady is at stake.
2. Listen to your conscience, not to your libido. If you feel the urge, ask yourself, 'Is this the right thing to do? What good will it do to me?'
3. Find other hobbies for you to get rid of that thought. Try sports and or leisure activities. Get preoccuopied!
4. When it comes to stuffing your bra, think of being contented with what you already have, plus guys love somene who is true to herself.... Gudluck!!!
2006-11-18 20:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by aya minamino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why are you doing lap dances you are a young lady you can't just do anything to satisfy boys just try your hardest you are eather in 6th grade or 7th you can't just choose what you want to do.go to www.bra's and other things .com
then push bra's and other subjects and type in what problems you are having
2006-11-18 20:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how can i stop....... you,,,, uh, stop. dont put tissue in ur bra, and definatly dont give ur guy friends lap dances.
you need to stay away from the guys that want you to give them lap dances. espically at your age. if you keep spending time with them you will eventually get raped. im not saying this to be mean. im a guy (using my fiance's yahoo). i will promise you that if you keep giving them lap dances. in a few years they will want more. i garontee you they will take more. weather you want them to or not.
stay away from them. and leave the tissue in the bathroom
2006-11-18 20:15:25 · answer #11 · answered by Jamie J 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋