I met this guy a week ago. And during that week, he has been following me around and has been saying affectionate things to me, but he hasnt even asked me out and he keeps on calling me, saying he likes me and al (more than a friend), but I dont feel the same way and I'm a little creeped out (especially only after 4 days meeting him), how do I tell him how I feel without hurting his feelings?
2006-11-18 11:34:22 · 6 answers · asked by daydream♥believer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"al" meant all, I spelled too fast.
2006-11-18 11:35:13 · update #1
I met him a week ago, but he started kinda getting affectionate after 4 days
2006-11-18 11:38:08 · update #2
No, desperate guys are like that alot. Easily emotionally attached to women they dont really know but have a strong physical attraction to. Just tell him the truth, tell him he is a bit overbearing and you dont feel that strongly for him. Maybe he will learn not to be like that with the next woman he meets.
2006-11-18 11:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've known people like that, and they're usually kind of harmless but very desperate sorts. Watch out they don't threaten suicide or try to get you alone when you don't like them. Always have a friend with you. Spurn him without being mean; always turn away when he says something you don't want to know, always cut him off, don't give him a reason to think you're all sweet and innocent and accepting of any type of treatment from any old person at all. He will realize you are trying the best you can to tell him to leave you alone, and he will do so and move on to someone else or maybe gain some insight, if you do it right, and just tell him straight up. That is if you want to even talk to him, you could tell him straight up. But if not, just be polite but "cold" whenever he brings up that uncomfortable stuff. Be unavailable.
2006-11-18 11:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful. Depending on where you guys met, he may be a little too clingy all of a sudden. Tell him how you fell NOW because you can't change the game in the 9th inning. Let him now, that you think he's moving a bit too fast. If he REALLY likes you he will respect your honesty and pump the breaks a bit. If not, then maybe he is a bit on the creepy side.
2006-11-18 11:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the best way is to be honest with him. Tell him how you feel. You can say it nicely, but still get your message across. Just tell him that you think he is probably a nice guy but that you just aren't interested. Don't let him keep hoping for more than you are willing to give. Good luck.
2006-11-18 11:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you do is tell him you dont like that way him mabye even say he's sweet so you dont hurt his feelings .tell him you can be friends .
2006-11-18 11:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by cody02465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might elect parker yet like u reported i might prefer to fulfill him first in the previous something is going farther yet for suited now he seems distinctly great as much as now. in simple terms pass with your heart.
2016-10-22 08:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by harte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋