okay, well i really really want to kiss my boyfriend who i love beyond words can say but everytime i get a chance, which is about every weekend, i chicken out. all my friends say im soooo shy and that i should just get over w/e the reason i wont kiss him. my boyfriend says that girls should make the first move when you kiss them but i think it should be the guy but he is new to kissing too and he doesn't have alot of expeirience so he is scared to.. and i would kiss him back if he kissed me but i just have to learn to start kissing him but im just to scared. and ive only had one kiss before and it was with him but it was just a millesecond long one that was a goodbye kiss.. and i really really want to, i just am too scared. just tell me how the hell i can get over this.. cuz he knoes that i seriously love him but i dont knoe if he likes the fact that i wont kiss him.. just pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease help me here!!! I seriously need it!! and if your a nice, kind person, u will help!
2006-11-18 11:29:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you are just going to have to take the plunge. Nothing bad is going to happen. You have some you like who likes you a lot and you are both worried about your kissing skills. You could just say to him that since you're both scared you'll agree that neither one will judge the other and you won't expect the kissing to be perfect in the beginning. Kissing takes practice for everyone. The only difference between a good kisser and a bad one is the amount of time they've spent kissing. Everyone starts awkward, but then they get better. This is only one of thousands of little moves you'll have to make that take courage, and you have to start one step at a time. What's the worst that could happen?
2006-11-18 11:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you're just scared, then you should try to get over it. Kiss him. There is nothing to be scared of. You've already kissed once, and you know he wants you to kiss him. But, if you just can't do it, maybe you should wait until you are ready. Don't let your friends and boyfriend force you to. Figure out what you want, then go for it.
2006-11-18 11:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you see him next time and when he sits down just sit on his lap and pucker you lips and give him a big kiss and I bet you'll will know what to do after that.
2006-11-18 11:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for the right moment after that everything will fall into place
2006-11-18 11:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you want him to make the first move.
2006-11-18 11:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by gabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋