My Bf went to the Iron Alabama/Auburn game today without me (I had to work) he gave my ticket to one of his guy friends....I called him right before the game and he hardley even wanted to talk to me, he was laughing with his friend and things like that....telling me about how his bud had been checking out all these girls and stuff.....and of course if his friend is checking them out so is he. Should I be angry or just let it go?
2006-11-18 11:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not asking if I should be angry at him just looking at girls, I am asking if I should be angry that I wasn't important enough to even talk to for a minute. It was kinda like rubbibng it in my face
2006-11-18 11:23:02 · update #1
Have faith in your guy, not all guys turn into slobbering retards around every woman! Gently push him to talk about his day when he gets home, and if you hear nothing to be worried about, relax :)
2006-11-18 11:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I assure you it is not personal. Sometimes men need some "guy time", and when in that zone we can get totally engulfed and put other things (and people) at a distance. It has nothing to do with how important you are to him. It was thoughtful that he had a ticket for you. However, I do admit that he should have checked as to your availability before purchasing the ticket. Then again, he may have been trying to surprise you.
By the way, how responsive would you be to him if he called just before you were leaving for the girls night out?
2006-11-18 19:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take any bs from him, let him know how you feel this will tell you where your relationship is going....and yes he is most likely checking out other girls
don't be angry just be concerned about it and face it head on, it will help you out in the long run and you never know he might just become better for it or blow you off again.....peace
2006-11-18 19:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by jaysurfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have fun. He's obviously thinking of you by asking if you wanted to go with him. Just becasue hes having fun dosent mean he's checking out girls.
2006-11-18 19:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by what tha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYTHING WON'T ALWAYS GO YOUR WAY AND PEOPLE ARN'T ALWAYS GOING TO GIVE YOU THE ATTENTION YOU WANT TO HAVE. IT'S SAD THAT YOU HAD TO WORK AND COULDN'T GO, BUT I DID TOO...THAT'S JUST LIFE SOMETIMES. ON THE OTHER HAND, HE DID GET TO GO. IF YOU LOVE HIM, JUST PRAY FOR HIS SAFETY AND THAT HIS HAS A GOOD TIME. HE'S WITH HIS BUDDIES. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU TWO ARE YOUNG, YOU'LL BOTH GROW OUT OF THIS IMMATURE PHASE. GOOD LUCK. I'M NOT BEING SMART OR UGLY. THIS WAS JUST THE ONLY WAS I COULD WORD WHAT I HAD TO SAY.
2006-11-18 19:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by barneyjoanstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. when guys are born its a natural instinct to look apone girls. Even after your married the guy will still look. Guys r just born that way
2006-11-18 19:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Runner - W.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him is anything wrong between u and him . say hes been acting really weird lately. sometimes its hard to do but try to tell him. if u still need some tips email me.
2006-11-18 19:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by yasminlovesya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooootalk to him see what the problem is talk it out wil help trust me
2006-11-18 19:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, but if this becomes a pattern then you have a problem.
2006-11-18 19:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just make sure hes not chaetin on you and if he is **** HIM
2006-11-18 19:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kara p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋