I am 13 and all of my friends have had boyfriends. Some have even gone as far as.......yea. Now I don't want to go that far. But I feel like I am a nerd for not having a boyfriend.( I have never had one either.) Anyways, everyone says a am so pretty yet not one person asking me out doesn't make me. What should I do?
2006-11-18 11:19:48 · 21 answers · asked by GlamourGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 is rather young to be dating. Give it time. You have your entire life ahead of ya.
2006-11-18 11:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have self respect even if your friends have gone as far as...yea. Some really nice guy will want to date you. All these girlfriends will end up as someone the guys pass around just because they want some. There is more to life than being like that. Have fun, you are 13 years old, and this is way too young to be having...yea. Study, and make the best grades you can so that you will amount to something. They will be stuck in dead end marriages with 5 kids, or stuck with kids and no daddy for the kids. You will be on to your way to being successful with a meaningful life.
2006-11-18 11:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of
the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but are easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them,when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
2006-11-18 11:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, sometimes when a girl is really pretty, guys think that they are toooo bad for this pretty girl and she will tell them NO if they ask her out, and anyway, you are only 13, you will have many boyfriends, and it is actually not good to go as far as ...yea when you are 13-14...:-) Good Luck!
2006-11-18 11:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing you are 13!! there is no reason for you to have a boyfriend.. and i hope your friends havent gone further then kissing on the cheek or maybe a peck on the lips.. you and your friends are too young to even be considering boyfriends.. i think that is extremely inappropriate and you should wait on the whole boyfriend thing until you are in highschool.. you're sitll just too young.. no boyfriends.. trust me there are none that you'll want at 13.. they are immature still.. and they probably wont get much better until sometime after highschool... try adn continue you to stray from the boyfriend land.. its too soon
2006-11-18 11:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should be yourself. Guys will find you don't worry about finding them. By doing things you like guys will be there and then you will have something in common. If worse comes to worse go and make the first move. Guys get scared so feel free to say you like them. The worst that can happen is they say no byt at least they know.
2006-11-18 11:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by crzy_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the world is different today, but I think you are too young to go out with a guy. Sex? your body is not ready! What matters is what you think of yourself. Don't go out with guys just so you can hear beautiful words. They can be empty and a lie. Love and respect yourself. There is time for everything in life. Remember your opinion of yourself will affect what guys think of you.
2006-11-18 11:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cister 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer is you need to spend a lot more time on you education and you need to be knowledgeable about how to conduct your self in a dating situation. get all you information together and learn now so there won't be harsh lessons later
2006-11-18 11:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 huh...honey...you're young, explore other interests to keep your mind preoccupied. Find out your habbits and enjoy them, guys can come anytime. You shouldn't feel geeky for not having a boyfriend...think of it like this..."I'm fabulous and SINGLE!"
A.L.
2006-11-18 11:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to flirt or try to catch the guys attention dont act like a tomboy and by catch the guys attention I mean just talk to them.
2006-11-18 11:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋